How do I get a girl who is rieally against having a boyfriend?

Question

Hey, I've been hanging out with this girl for about a month now and she's admitted she really likes me and vice versa. The problem is that she like refuses to have a boyfriend because she hates all of the obligations and has been stuck in frustrating relationships all of high school. I've been hanging out with her a lot and most people at my school assume we're already going out. For some reason she refuses to admit there is a possibility that we will go out anytime soon. What I've done so far is tell her that I'm just going to be really good friends with her and find another girl to be my girlfriend. I figure that if this works out she will get jealous and finally be willing to go into a relationship, or I will do exactly as I told her and date a different girl and everything will be cool. Of course, I'd prefer to go out with her. Does anyone have any good advice on this? Thanks.

Answer 1

maybe she's a lesbian....you never know

Answer 2

Don't date another girl. You've told he how you feel- and she's told you how she feels. I think that her reason for not going out w/ you is retarded. I'd try avoiding her for a while and when she asks what's wrong, I'd just tell her the truth- you're not sure you can just be friends with her if that's as far as it will go. You like her, she likes you- you just can't do the 'friend' thing anymore.

Answer 3

If that will work, then go for it. Just like you are creating a "demand". But dont overdo it, you may end up lock into other girl, and he instead focused to another guy.

Answer 4

It is not cool to date another girl when you really like somebody else.

Answer 5

WHY FORCE HER INTO A RELATIONSHIP. SHE WILL LET YOU KNOW, BUT HEY IF SHE KNOWS YOUR SEEING SOMEONE NEW. SHE WILL PROBABLY THINK THAT YOUR TO BUSY TO BE WITH HER.