I liked this guy..a lot. He said he would go out with me if I asked him out to his face. In my mind I thought this was weird considering most people around where I live don't do that. But I found some guts and asked him. He said yes. Keep in mind we had dated beforee. He always seemed afraid to talk to me or touch me. This time however we have been dating a week and he is already saying I love you and grabbing my hand in the halls. I feel like things are moving to fast for me. Am I being weird or is he pushing me?! What should I do?
2007-02-15 13:41:37 · 11 answers · asked by soccerchickaaa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell him that you want to slow down and see how things work out. If he really does care, he'll understand.
2007-02-15 13:45:49 · answer #1 · answered by smcdevitt2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him how you feel and maybe ask him to slow down a bit. There are no rules for dating so make up your own. If you are uncomfortable you should tell him. Being honest is the best way to go.
2007-02-15 13:45:32 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your not being weird at all
i think it's kinda quick for him to be saying i love you even if you have dated before. Tell him you think he's moving a bit to fast and ask him to slow things down a bit. If he really loves you he'll understand
2007-02-15 13:46:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him where he sees the relationship going... maybe he made a mistake once by letting you go and forgetting about you.... maybe now he dont want to lose you agian.... BUT if you feel that he is taking it too fast... DO let him know..... ONLY YOU can tell what you want in a relationship with him... no one else can tell you what to do.... good luck
2007-02-15 13:47:49 · answer #4 · answered by molly_tony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't give your age. kudos to you for being up front and asking him out. that's a very mature thing to do!!
holding hands can be fun. I Love You is said too often and has lost its meaning. if it feels like he's pushing you, that is your warning system telling you to slow down. just have fun and date.
2007-02-15 13:45:38 · answer #5 · answered by KitKat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Holding hands isn't rushing it.
Relax. If you feel he's going too fast for you though, just tell him how you feel but holding hands is not really a big leap.
2007-02-15 13:45:57 · answer #6 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him what you just told us!
relationships buit on lies just hurts everyone!
tell him you like the attention, but its just at too much of a high.. and tell him you dont know what love is yet! and you dont want to end things, just take it down a few notches!
and if he does not change. find someone else who can respect you better!
2007-02-15 13:46:31 · answer #7 · answered by jiggamaboo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sent him the wrong signals. Find a way to test his intention. He may be with you because he sees an opportunity.
2007-02-15 13:45:49 · answer #8 · answered by dondatu 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he is just making up for the lost time when he was nervous. You might want to be careful though. Try consulting him, but be gentle, you don't want to scare him off.
2007-02-15 13:45:06 · answer #9 · answered by faye 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Imagine that. You wanted him when he played hard-to-get and now that he is coming to your way of thinking now your back peddling. Whats up with that?
2007-02-15 13:44:42 · answer #10 · answered by Kill_Me_Now! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋