i live with my aunt and in the past month she has been in the hostpitle twice.............the first time it was from blood clots and this time it was because she fell and couldn't get up.........im really upset because i dont want 2 loose her like i did my uncle........what can i do 2 help her stay healthy when she comes home this time??
and how can i calm down within the next hour or 2 so i can get 2 sleep tonight??
2007-02-15 13:40:20 · 6 answers · asked by the idiot down the road 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
yes i know i probably misspelled quite a few words but it's hard 2 type and cry at the same time........just so you know im only 13 and i know there's not much i can do but i want 2 help her
2007-02-15 13:41:32 · update #1
and i just told my bf about it and he said "well she should have been more careful"............any advice on what 2 do about that
2007-02-15 14:13:58 · update #2
besides dumping him.........
2007-02-15 14:14:57 · update #3
Smallfrie............You sound like a really cool kid and you have your head together. Good job!
The problem here is that your being forced to take on adult responsibilities at a very young age. That is no easy task (even for an adult) and I admire your courage.
You need help from someone that you can trust to make educated decisions regarding your aunt.
Do you go to Church or is there an established one near bye?
You should try to talk to the Church pastor for recommendations. They will have ideas of who can assist you and will get you connected with them.
Don't let worry get the best of you! Make that phone call and things will begin to happen for the better.
Hang in there! We're all rooting for you!
PS: Your boyfriend sounds like a callous oaf. (sorry to tell you that)
2007-02-15 14:19:30 · answer #1 · answered by Kunta Kinte 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
forst of all,i want to say that i am really sorry for what you are going through, i can only imagine how you feel. first of all, try to think of all the positive things to calm yourself down, remember crying will not help. and when shell come back, you can make sure that she gets enough rest and ask her what doctor told her to do? like what to eat, what she dcant do, etc. and do what the doc said. good luck and again, i am very sorry :( REMEMBER SOONER OR LATER EVERYTHING WILL BE OKAY :)
2007-02-15 21:46:05 · answer #2 · answered by MM 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If its effecting you a lot, then perhaps you should go to a doctor to prescribe you some sleeping pills, otherwise do some exercise to tire yourself out. There are even some herbal relaxants that could help as well, like teas and stuff...
2007-02-15 21:44:59 · answer #3 · answered by Jasmina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwww im so sorry. make sure she eats right and get rest. see if you can ask the doctor whats wrong with her and look up a cure, or ask her doctor about it. i will pray for you.
2007-02-15 21:44:24 · answer #4 · answered by Asia Gabrielle 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hey there is probably not much you can do for her but be there for herjust pray that jesus well watch over her give it to him and stop worrying
2007-02-15 21:44:49 · answer #5 · answered by squirell_play 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
idk about this one
to calm her down just talk to her
she needs someone there for her
help her out with her EMOTIONAL needs
this will help relieve stress and make her feel a little better PHYSICALLY
good luck
LOVES
SAMMI7223
2007-02-15 21:47:03 · answer #6 · answered by LittleMissChiff 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋