pls.... i need your advice.....
2007-02-15 13:39:34 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's okay
and its normal too
but plz dont lose ur virginity over him, it could be puppylove in disguise
2007-02-15 13:45:51 · answer #1 · answered by the.journey.is.the.reward. C.P. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is ok. But remember, try save your virginity. If you can't save it, use condoms. Wish you the best. In the meanwhile, grab a book and read.
And don't believe anyone who says age is just a number, because that is totally not true... So, if age is just a number, would you date a 7 year old guy and you are 13? If no, why? Because he's too young, and what makes him too young? The naswer is: Age.
So, let's say you are 19, would you date a 90 year old guy? If no, why? Because he's too old. And what makes him so old? The answer is: Age... So, if age doesn't matter, we should date anyone we feel like to, even have sex with girls under 10 years old and the law wouldn't have anything against it, because age is just a number, right? Once again, age does matter, it is not just a number.
2007-02-15 21:43:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, please practice typing. It's much easier to answer typed out questions. :-) That way you're more likely to get better responses.
As for your question... I think there's nothing wrong with being interested in an older guy (I'm dating someone 2 1/2 years older). If he's the kind of guy that gets into a lot of trouble, though, I'd steer clear no matter what age he is. But if he's a nice guy and you know he wouldn't go out with you just because he thinks you're an easy, immature 13 year old, then go for it.
Age is only a number.
2007-02-15 21:43:23 · answer #3 · answered by Robeau 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is absolutley ok for you to have a crush on a 16 year old guy... it is completely normal. Just I think that you need to be careful because I know from my own experience that it is common for guys to take advantage of girls. I think you should go ahead and have your crush but... if he ever has any interest in you then you should be careful to find out why he likes you. If he likes you for all the wrong reasons than it would be better for you to not like him. This will save you from getting hurt feelings.
2007-02-15 21:50:09 · answer #4 · answered by childofGOD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter is 15 and has a crush on Johnny Depp, and hes in his 40s!!! Nothing wrong with a crush, but be careful if it grows to be more. 16 year old boys have more on their minds than some 13 year olds. (Unfortunalty not all)
2007-02-15 21:43:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is ok for u do have a crush on him. it is not ok for him to do anything about it tho because of ur age difference. later on in life, 3 years difference is nothing, but now, its a lot, espescially in the terms of development, (not just physically). if hes the kind of 16 year old who would date a 13 year old, then hes probably a jerk with some kind of psychological problems that u dont want anything to do with anyway.
2007-02-15 21:49:55 · answer #6 · answered by andrew b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A crush is just that- a crush. You can have them for other students, rock stars, celebrities, whatever. This is normal and natural- even if the person might not be of the opposite gender.
BUT- be sure the object of your interest is interested in YOU, before acting on this crush. Pursuing someone who is NOT interested in you is NOT OK.
It's called "Stalking".
2007-02-15 21:45:16 · answer #7 · answered by Alan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nooo im only 13 too but ive never had a crush on a 16 year old i mean yea its okay to like him but you cant do anything with him because he could go to jail and stuff... my friend made out with a guy that was 19 i think it didnt turn out so well everyone knows exept her mom but she regrets it and all of that i suggest to try tto find someone your age and hook up with him cuase i mean age diffrence matters when wer this young so if you ever had a chance it would be when your older [alot] so try to get over him and find someone else your age to get your mind off of him ")
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2007-02-15 21:44:45 · answer #8 · answered by Sammie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah... I dated a a 16 year old when I was 12.
2007-02-15 21:45:21 · answer #9 · answered by Bay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a crush is very healthy. you're 13 and it's normal.
it can become unhealthy when you forget that you are just 13. you've got lots of years ahead of you to act like an adult. slow down and just have fun and giggle like a kid.
2007-02-15 21:43:37 · answer #10 · answered by KitKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u ask this already but now u say ur 13 years old that the differents he is 3 years older than u i say no its not ok now !
2007-02-15 21:42:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋