I met this guy in college.We have been talking online and in person ever since the first week.The first night we ever talked, he asked me out.I turned him down saying that I didn't even know who he was, which was true.He has since asked me out 2wice.Both times w/ rejections b/c I was not sure I wanted to be in a relationship.Since then, we have both been w/ other people, but have been drawn back to each other.He's got long stringy black hair, tattoos, & a tounge ring.he drinks/smokes.Hes very shy, but is comfortable w/ me. We recently got into a fight. We didn't talk 4 2 weeks, & then made up. 3 nights ago, he told me that he missed "us" & that he likes to think about times we had. I can also always tell that he is very jealous of every guy that talks to me. 2night he said he was going to ask a girl out & i said good for him & then said i was also going to be w/ another guy 2night 2. he got mad & said "F you then F you"What does this mean?Did he have a diff. girl or does he want me?
2007-02-15 13:28:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it means he believes you have been leading him on. he probably told you he was asking another girl out to see if you would be jealous.
IMO, rejecting him three times but continuing to keep in contact sends a mixed message. telling you he missed "us" etc. should have sent you a wake-up call that he was reading much more into your association than you apparently are. you turn him down 3 times, then tell him about being with other people? no wonder the guy gets mad.
regardless, there is really no excuse for his rude words to you, and that also should be an alert to possible future mistreatment, should you pursue further contact.
Either read the book or put it back on the shelf, dear, don't just add it to your pile and carry it around, if you know what I mean.
2007-02-15 13:35:21 · answer #1 · answered by cryllie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run - He wants you, but like any other man that is jealous this easily - He will want to control you. Based on the fact that you guys have already had a fight that you didn't talk to one another for two weeks, it sounds like you two can't work through problems and that would be pretty necessary in a serious relationship.
There are millions of men out there, you'd have a better shot with someone that you didn't even know than to hope for this to be better with this guy.
2007-02-15 13:34:59 · answer #2 · answered by Bren_Gigi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy sounds like a total loser.
Yes it's obvious that he likes you, but he's not someone you would like being with because he seems clingy, jealous, and controling. Not good qualities in a partner at all. A guy like that is very likely to end up cheating on you but not allowing you to even have a male friend. A relationship with someone like that would be a nightmare.
If you like him keep him as a friend, but keep him at arms length and make it clear to him that you aren't interested in him beyond friendship and he has no right to be jealous of your involvement with other guys because he is NOT your boyfriend.
2007-02-15 13:51:18 · answer #3 · answered by RaisedByWolves 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think that you should get into a relationship with this guy. He sounds like he wants you to be completely loyal to him, while he does anything he wants. CONTROL FREAK!! Bottom line; he may want you, but he doesn't want you alone. IF you DO decide to have a sertious relationship with him, remember, he may not be as serious about you as you are about him. You maybe a convienence.
Tattoos or not, he could be sweet. I'm just saying Watch Your Back.
Take care.
2007-02-15 13:36:58 · answer #4 · answered by Charity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really do believe that this guy wants you.. if he gets jealous of other guys and such.. tells you how he feels and is very open with you... then this guy is crazy about you.. you might get the inpression that hes a player cuz of his looks and habbits.. LOOKS CAN BE DECIEVING!! If you are into this guy.. give him a chance... and if your not into him then tell him so hes not waisting his time or yours.. and if thats the case then just remember that you can still be good friends... and let him know that.
2007-02-15 13:38:51 · answer #5 · answered by mueller_lm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Means that he is not comfortable with his position in any relationship concerning the opposite sex and therefore must be the dominant partner which is good in some kinky relationships but unless into bondage my need to think seriously of moving on!
2007-02-15 13:33:54 · answer #6 · answered by S.O.S. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
....sounds like you f'ed up bad. just sit down w/ him, and talk. dont dominate the convo, and let him ramble on if need be. let him express his true feelings to you, then do the same. if it can work out, than good for you. if it cant, thats life for you. dont get to attached to someone who you could lose at any time. id say he wants you though, so dont let him slip through your grasp either. good luck w/ ur friend there. i wish the best for both of you.
2007-02-15 13:39:41 · answer #7 · answered by V3CK!N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smokes and drinks. Is jealous of you even though you two aren't dating. This guy is messed up and you would be so also if you started up with him. Forget him and move on. Imagine how jealous he will get once you two start dating!
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2007-02-15 13:37:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probly loves you and is jealous
There is somebody I love who I want to get with.
It makes me so jealous to think of her getting with anyone else.
I would wait a very long time for her, not forever though.
Its probly ok to have sex with my wife sometimes I figure.
She doesn't even like it that much so maybe it doesn't count. ;)
2007-02-15 13:33:37 · answer #9 · answered by agropelter 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He has a Jeolousy problem
He's mad cause he does want you!!
And u keep blowing him off.
2007-02-15 16:02:56 · answer #10 · answered by tRaCi3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋