I go to college with this girl...we're both in graduate school. Long story short...I don't think she really wants to date me, but she clearly wants to be friends. She likes hanging out together. We spend a lot of time one-on-one and as a group, too. We really only do things together because I want to spend time with her, and I'm open to trying new things that she's interested in. But she made it pretty clear that she dosen't want to date. I asked her to dinner and she was basically like, "You mean as friends, RIGHT?" ...It was a preemptive rejection! Anyway...I'm tripping. I think she's HOT, she's funny, sweet, probably amazing in bed...and she's ALWAYS on my mind. I just want to forget about her. I don't want to get all messed up - going crazy over some wild hottie that I can't ever be with. It kills me. What should I do? I don't feel right.
2007-02-15 13:26:56 · 8 answers · asked by The Rainmaker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best thing to do is to find someone else bro. Have you tried dating someone else? If she didnt feel jealous about it then it is confirmed: you are clearly not her type. Just remain friends with her.
2007-02-15 13:49:42 · answer #1 · answered by eyentmd8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to change the way you think. Instead of refering to her as "some wild hottie that I can't ever be with", you should be telling yourself, "there's a way to this woman's heart and I'm gonna find it". If you want her that bad, then take charge. Show her you're a man and allow her to see your confident side. And don't forget to throw in a little naughtiness just for good measure. Hey, good luck to you.
2007-02-15 21:36:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you have a crush on her? Give her a goodnight kiss (just a quick one) after your date or outing, and see how she reacts. You may get a kiss back or she may just push you away. You'll find out one way or the other. Good luck!
2007-02-15 21:51:28 · answer #3 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she enjoys hanging out with you and you enjoy hanging out with her, than it's OK to just accept that she only wants to be friends. Don't pressure her. Just amaze her with all the wonderful things that make you YOU. Continue to be her good friend and, you never know, you make get the unexpected!
2007-02-15 21:32:13 · answer #4 · answered by Insurancepro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey if she told you she just wants to be your friend then you are going to have to take no for no. have you told her how you feel about her?why dont you tell her how you feel and see what she feels then you know where you stand. be honest to her and you may get your heart broke but honest is the best thing u can do
2007-02-15 21:33:45 · answer #5 · answered by crystal w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another evil woman that catchs your eye and doesn't want to give them back.
2007-02-15 21:30:57 · answer #6 · answered by calmlikeatimebomb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on a quit torturing yourself.
2007-02-15 21:29:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was evil, she'd lead you on. She obviously doesn't like you the way you like her. there is NOTHING you should do.
2007-02-15 21:37:00 · answer #8 · answered by Jessycat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋