My friend has been going out with this guy for 3 years and she wants to break it up today and i dont know what to tell her can you please help ?!?
2007-02-15 13:11:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't. If you break up with someone that you have been involved with for that long they will be hurt. However, you have to do it in a good way. Always in person...be gentle and be honest about why you are breaking up with the person. Do not put them down and say that you'd like to remain friends if that is what you want. It's going to be hard of course, but you shouldn't be in a relationship with someone who you don't love. Do it quick and get it over with!
2007-02-15 13:23:03 · answer #1 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot aviod rejection, there is no way around it. What can be done is the truth. She has to face up and tell the truth. Obviously say it in a nice way, but she cant back down. He might get mad with her, but he will respect her because she did not lead him on.
2007-02-15 21:32:24 · answer #2 · answered by Wheres the Rum Gone? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she can say her mom is making her and they can get back 2gether later. but stop talkin' 2 him. Or say that she wants 2 "take a break"
2007-02-15 21:16:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. If there were no such thing as heartbreak there would be no such thing as love or joy...It's a part of life. He'll live...
2007-02-15 21:15:42 · answer #4 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't.......
2007-02-15 21:13:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋