I am going to go to a play tommorrow with an official friend/girlfriend whatever kind of thing. Its our first date. How do I act and what do I do?
2007-02-15 13:02:36 · 17 answers · asked by venivendetta 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. Be yourself.....This will work, unless your a complete and 100% @$$.
2. Don't try too hard. Be as natural as you can be.
3. Be a gentleman.
4. Look at her eyes when you talk to her.
5. Listen....I can't stress this enough! LISTEN!!! If you don't like the topic change it, instead of pretending you're listening.
6. Be honest..... Example, you're not too thrilled with what she's wearing don't say she looks good unless it's true. Just don't volunteer a comment.
7. Don't be overdressed, but don't look like a slacker also. Just wear something simple but decent.
8. At the very least make a genuine offer to pay for everything.
2007-02-15 13:20:00 · answer #1 · answered by dr.dre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, always be calm. BE YOURSELF. Don't pretend to be someone else. That is why most relationships dont work out. You pretend to be someone else, then when you get really close to someone, you act more of yourself and they see a sudden change. Some like it, others don't. Just be yourself. If you both like each other, none of you will mind if either of you mess up on something.
2007-02-15 21:06:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how beautiful she looks, and make sure your nice, hold the door for her, and nvr leave her side, unless it means to let go of the door and slam it into someones face, if you meet another guy u know pretend you didn't see him in case your girlfriend gets jealous, and if you see a ex ignore her and pretend you didn't see her, most all be nice and kind makin you seem like a gentlemen
2007-02-15 21:07:44 · answer #3 · answered by Breeepppp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look your best, be on time, and treat her with respect. Make her laugh and feel taken care of. Listen to her when she talks and be a gentleman. Women love that! Good luck and remember to be yourself and have fun!
2007-02-15 21:08:05 · answer #4 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't talk too much. Really. Be a good listener.
And be decisive....don't say "I don't know, whatever you want to do."
And throw out a couple of compliments.
2007-02-15 21:16:46 · answer #5 · answered by Karen? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, just be yourself. Try not to be too nervous, it shows. Show her you care about her and RESPECT her. Don't get too touchy or anything especially if its just the first date.
2007-02-15 21:08:12 · answer #6 · answered by ybnrml341 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act like you did when you liked her and you werent going out. she fell in love with that guy it should be the same on a date.
2007-02-15 21:06:24 · answer #7 · answered by annabanana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretend she's one of your old friend and you'll be find. Be courteous and remember to open the door for her; she sits before you do (if you have to pull a chair for her, do it).
2007-02-15 21:25:43 · answer #8 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the number one thing you should do is not to stress!!! just kick back and enjoy and make good convo, see what she likes, and get her a single rose , she will think its sweet, and it will give you some points with her
2007-02-15 21:08:36 · answer #9 · answered by Wreckless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advice that I can be you is to be yourself. Cliche, I know but it is true.
2007-02-15 21:12:35 · answer #10 · answered by Shorty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋