i've been with my gf for just over a year now.
She once cheated on me, with 4 guys in one night.. and i thought i'd be over it and continue the relationship
ii regret to say this, but i dnt forgive her for it and therefore there is no trust and i hate her being around other men, because she was too used to being with randoms than being in a relationship..
recently, she's done nothing but moan at me.. and when i get threatening, she gets all lovey dovey..
I'd b happier without her, bt i know i wont bring myself to end it
2007-02-15 12:58:33 · 23 answers · asked by 18/M/Scotland 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dump the whore
2007-02-15 21:03:08 · answer #1 · answered by v 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest. Let her know that she blew it and she's on your bad side now. Don't let her manipulate you into staying if you don't want to stay in the relationship. She is not going to change until she's ready. If she really loves you she would at least try. If you can't forgive her and you don't trust her then there is no way the relationship will last in the first place. Once a cheater always a cheater until they are ready to be steady with one person. Good luck! You sound like a respectable guy, there are plenty of women out there who would love and respect you enough to be faithful to you honey.
2007-02-15 21:06:07 · answer #2 · answered by diamoniquejazz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm..let me get this straight. You don't trust her and you'd be happier without her. Sounds like you should do everyone a favor and break up with the poor girl. What kind of relationship is this if you don't even have any trust or love for someone? Is it because you don't want to be alone? I'd rather be alone and happy than together and miserable. You choose. Break up with her and move on already!
2007-02-15 21:05:40 · answer #3 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry, but you will have to end it, for the only reason is trust. When she did that to you, the trust issue is gone, she knows what a great guy you are, and doesn't want the relationship to end, but I'm afraid, you have to and very soon. Get on with your life, it will hurt, and she will try to come back, promise everything under the sun to have you back, but quite simply, get rid of the dead weight, sorry for being blunt, but that is exactly what she is, Take care,
2007-02-15 21:04:41 · answer #4 · answered by Cindybear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no question... you have told us what you want to do...
You dont trust her...there is no relationship! Reltionships are based on trust.
If you would be happier without her then dump her.. You cant go on in a relationship that doesnt make you happy. The longer u keep it going the worse and harder its going to get.
Do it face to face tho.
2007-02-15 21:10:24 · answer #5 · answered by random_angel2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Four guys in one night???? I think that answers your question for you. She has no self-respect. It sounds like you may looking for a serious, commited relationship and that she's just playing around. You know it's a mis-match. You know it's not working...get up the courage and tell her it's over. You have to look out for yourself. Don't worry about her...she'll be fine. Obviously...
2007-02-15 21:07:38 · answer #6 · answered by Mel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? If know you are happier without her than you should leave, do it now while you still can.... wait any longer and it will be soooo much harder on the both of you. You can do so much better, 4 guys in 1 night??? Holy moly!!!!!!!! Dude do yourself a favor and leave her sorry butt......
2007-02-15 21:04:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would break up with her because u cant have a relationship without trust if i were you but the best thing to do is pray about it.
2007-02-15 21:06:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, it depends on whether you think this was a slip up on her part. I am not proud of it but I cheated on my boyfriend by sleeping with my ex girlfriend. My boyfriend caught me twice, on one occasion he walked and witnessed my girlfriend's head being held firmly between my legs. He went berserk and we split up. Now we are back together again, and we have agreed that we will be exclusive. I can only say that I am now committed to my relationship. Sit down and talk with your girlfriend - see if your relationship can be salvaged. Otherwise, it is better that you are parted
2007-02-15 21:06:31 · answer #9 · answered by Ella 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i know in my thing on top says im a guy but i'm not i'm actually a girl but anyways i think u should just forget about her because there are more girls out there waiting for a guy you never know you can find someone else. and yeah some people are just better off with out them, but i don't know... if u don't want to suffer anymore i think u should just tell her that its not working anymore and she and you need to move on!!!
2007-02-15 21:04:59 · answer #10 · answered by Fermin T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 guys in one night ? All at the same time ?
Your best out of it matey. Get yourself a nice lady.
2007-02-15 21:22:43 · answer #11 · answered by Narky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋