my cuzin is threating me with something i told her and i dont want my who family to know how do i get her not to tell??
ps ive tried almost everything , even bribing , telling her ill do anything, making her feel bad about it but she is soo mean and i thought she was nice b4
2007-02-15 12:57:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
The only way youre going to get out of this is to tell your family yourself. Once you do she cant hold this over you.
And from now on be careful who you tell sensitive secrets to. Most people cant keep a secret.
2007-02-15 13:03:52 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok, can she proove what she knows is true? Or would it just be hear say?
Shes definately on a power rage, she has control over you, Id guess to say she could even be envious of you or has been in the past.
You need to consider a few things, would it be so bad if your folks found out?
Are you ashamed of what she knows? Hence the fear factor, your worried how your family will react?
Consider your relationship with your family is there one person, an adult you could talk to about it?
If you take away her opportuntiy to "backmail" you she will have no power.
You could call her bluff, and deny it, but how confident are you?
You could beat her to it and tell all, for all actions there are consequences, dont forget to announce shes been threatening you with what she has known for some time, Id say that may lighten the load on you, so to speak.
All in all, theres one basic rule. If you dont want anyone to know something, you dont tell anyone.
Its the only way to be sure it goes no further. In other words just talk about what your not bothered other people knowing.
She knows this is important to you, you have said youve tried everything to stop her telling, shift the balance take away her control.
Good Luck.
2007-02-15 21:16:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you let me know what threating means, I'll assist you.
2007-02-15 21:00:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is power in DENIAL. Call her bluff, then deny deny deny. She just enjoys this power over u.....evil girl
2007-02-15 21:00:44 · answer #4 · answered by Chloe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you're going to tell on her too. You know what she did.
2007-02-15 21:03:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about something that she did in the past and was really bad and threten to tell. if that doesn't work then tell ur mom the opposite of wat she will tell her and get her in trouble.
2007-02-15 21:01:35 · answer #6 · answered by ~*Kay Kay*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what it is...more details?
2007-02-15 21:02:26 · answer #7 · answered by Lola 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your going to have to kill her.
2007-02-15 21:00:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋