theres this girl that ive known since augest and i like her and she likes me but shes had a bf ever since we met . I asked her out once and she said that she couldn't because she had a bf. but i knowshe likes me because of the way she acts/talks/plays round wit me. she like dises her bf to hang round me a lot. We mess around and stuff but weve never done anything serious
i mean i love her but she gives me flase hope somtimes she acts like were going to do somethin/ shes goin to go out wit me and then when the time comes nothin happens its like shes playing a freaking game wit me
what should i do
should i wait till she breaks up wit her bf 2 go out wit her
or should i find somebody else?
2007-02-15 12:49:16 · 11 answers · asked by Chris M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. Put it too very staight and direct so she knows you're serious about her, and that you think she should dump her current BF and be your GF. Her answer will tell you the situation and clear the confusion:
If she says no, then she is just playing with your head by flirting with you, keeping your around in the friend zone, if you are lucky you're an emergency d*ck in a glass case. Not good, you should probably just bounce outa this one or be strict friends.
If she says she's not sure, then she does like you, and just wants to be more sure before she dumps her current guy, this is a good sign because its probably only a matter of time, if you play it right and really make her like you. If this is the case then...
2. Do not, i repeat, DO NOT, try to bang her every time your together. In fact you should make sure she knows that you will not bang her as long as she is in a relationship (only because you've already established that you want to, and assuming that you want to be her BF more than you want to just bang her).
REASON:
If you try to bang her when she has a BF then it tells her you do not respect the BF/GF relationship, and this gives her insights into how you will be if you were her BF. Take it seriousely and she will know you will take your relationship with her seriousely. Thats a little tip for ya.
To Summerize:
Ease off the sex, just focus on the friendship. Take the boundries rock solid seriouse, show total self control while oozing the fact that you want to mount her, she will then know you are a real man, and then she will boff your brains out because thats probably all she's waiting to see anyway. GOOD LUCK HORN DOG!
2007-02-15 13:27:51 · answer #1 · answered by Ray of Freaking Sunshine! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's an unfortunate situation.
A lot of the time, the girl (or guy in other cases) wont be breaking it off with their bf / gf.
It sounds like maybe this girl is getting the type of attention from you that maybe she isn't getting from her boyfriend? Or that she's just enjoying the extra attention.
My advice if for you to suck it up, tell her to stop playing with your head and to move on. Surely there are plenty of other, single girls in need of your attention?
2007-02-15 21:01:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she has a BF and she likes to play with you, shes a two-timer.
thats a game she likes to play because she does it behind her BFs back and if he finds out, who do you think he will go after?
say, she dumps the BF for you, what assurance do you have that she wont do the same thing to you?
shes a two-timer, she likes to play with 2 guys or more.
2007-02-15 20:53:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like she's playing with you. I wouldn't waste anymore time on her. Go find someone else. You never know how long you could be waiting for them to break up.
2007-02-15 20:55:06 · answer #4 · answered by Curtis B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes just a flirt dude. SHe will be like that with plenty of guys. Remember this: If Shes like this with you when shes not around her boyfriends, imagine if you did go out with her. You couldnt trust her cos she wud be jsut the same around other guys.
Dont wait around dude...
2007-02-15 20:53:53 · answer #5 · answered by Shteff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After the first look think are in the modern world where change the boy-girl friends.But stop it is don't for no reason that in Bible ,Koran,Buddhist writings ect.are teached to respect and don't interfere in others relation(sexual,man-woman) and it figurs at capital sins.
2007-02-15 21:02:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some strange poontang. ***** this beeeach. She needs a stiff ***** in her asss!
2007-02-15 20:53:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just a complete tease. Just go find someone else. Or you could ask her why she does what she does.
2007-02-15 20:53:27 · answer #8 · answered by Karen Smith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first go to a spelling class!!! then after you get that down go find somebody else.
2007-02-15 20:53:24 · answer #9 · answered by angelbrat462901 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find somebody else if she really liked you she would be with you!
2007-02-15 20:53:26 · answer #10 · answered by brenda4ever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋