weve been going out for a week and I just realized that when we were just friends, we were more comftorable around eachother than we are now. but if i dump him i still want to be the same friends we were. When he was going out with my friend, she dumped him and they havent talked ever since. What do i do??? What do i say???
2007-02-15 12:14:14 · 3 answers · asked by christine... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell them
2007-02-15 12:17:09 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First be honest in any of your relations. It's not fair to lead anyone on, you diffinitely would want the same.Tell him "This may sound like an old cliche but we are better friends than romantics. I fear saying this may ruin our friendship but I hope it doesn't for I valued our friendship." I myself was able to go back to a fulfilling friendship after a romantic one. We shared ourselves intimately during the romantic, kind of got the best of both worlds for he knows my both sides and has stood up in certain romantic relations after. Not all can end good that started good.
2007-02-15 20:29:16 · answer #2 · answered by rose s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty hard to go backwards. I'd just tell him the truth myself.
2007-02-15 20:18:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋