my gf is thinking about breaking up with me i think, again. she insists that i didnt do ne thing, cuz i really havnet. the first time, she said she sees me just as a friend. but after two month we got back together and we'd been soo happy for four months. but now, our 6th month together... shes saying stuff like "i dont know somethings changed" and "u didnt do ne thing" and but when i ask her shes like "i dont know wuts gonna happen, lets just see how it goes tommorow" but now im really scared... cuz i dont know wut to and wuts gonna happen, plz help me on wut to do, and if she really is how can i keep her with me
2007-02-15 12:13:58 · 17 answers · asked by o_dub7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound young. What you should do is break up with HER. She takes you for granted and the reason she comes back is that she knows you will be there.
She also knows you are into her more than she is to you. She's kind of playing head games with you as well. Your probably a nice person, but she craves the knight in shining armor stuff like in the movies. Again, this person will not be there for you. You should break up with her and watch her jaw drop. Tell her that if she really wants you she'll be committed to you; do you want to spend the rest of your life walking on egg shells with her? Again, for right now, this is not something that is healthy for you.
Again, leave her; you deserve the best and she's not going to be there for you the way you want her to. I'm sorry.
2007-02-15 12:21:08 · answer #1 · answered by Ice4444 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen dude! Woman feel insecurity. They see it in our faces. If you stick to your guns you have a chance of surviving. Its like that prisoner at the firing squad, if you stand brave and face the music once, you will die once. In my varies reading in many languages I came a cross a saying that said "The brave only die once, while a coward dies every minute".. Or something to that effect. If she does break up with you than take it like a man, and say Fine! There is 3 billion women in the world and some you are related to, some are sick, some are old, and some are young, that still leaves a substantial number out there for you to chose from. Woman want to fall in love,marry, and have kids with a dominant man, they are programmed that way by Mother Nature. You acting like a "WUS"(sorry but I'm just giving you tough love) is turning her off. Dude you cannot be scarred fine if she she leave.
2007-02-18 08:51:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok! The only way to stop this is when you see her, you have to break up with her instead of her breaking up with you. That is just so she can get attention. Trust me! I'm a girl. Do the math! If she breaks up with you, I guarantee that you and her will get back together. But if you break up with her, she will miss you and say that she has lost a good guy. It kills girls when a guy breaks up with them and it makes them like the guy even more. She will try to get you back somehow. If you want to make it even stronger, make her jealous by going out with another girl. I wish the best of lucks to you. If this doesn't work, well, that means she never liked you in the first place. She must have just wanted attention.
2007-02-15 12:23:35 · answer #3 · answered by Drama Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, since this is christmas break you need to enjoy it, do not start to let stress come into this friendship you share with this lady. so what, if she takes to long to answer your text this is a break from every day life, this includes you too! get things done that you have put off for while, and now is the time to play catchup! just be patience and let things come together and in time your friend will come back from her break and she will again be interested tell her to only text you when she has time to do so. be a nice guy that you are, and watch the happiness come into your life.
2016-05-24 05:05:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If shes made up her mind. Whats done is done! i know for a fact that girls never change their mind once they've made a decision. The only way is you have to sweep her off her feet and if you don't think you can you better start looking for a new GF.
2007-02-15 12:18:23 · answer #5 · answered by Euro Boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is playing with your heart and this is wrong!
Don't live your life in fear for her! Tell her that you will break up with her since you can't handle her insecurities...
She sounds controlling and wants you to dance like you are a puppet! Move on, unless she straightens up..move on
2007-02-15 12:17:59 · answer #6 · answered by diamond_moon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's going to happen is going to happen, if you guilt her into staying together with you it's just going to get worse. Just accept the fact and move on.
2007-02-15 12:17:46 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet Talk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she wants to go, let her go. just let her know that you aren't taking her back this time. Who are you to tell her what she can and can't do? chances are it isnt' you, and she just wants to date around. Don't worry about it. She obviously isn't the one for you, that's all
2007-02-15 12:18:34 · answer #8 · answered by Steffi . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have one last session of making out. She's a goner for sure
2007-02-15 12:16:56 · answer #9 · answered by yo y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont want to keep someone that really doesnt want to be with you. you need to let her go and go find someone who appreciates you for who you are. you can do better.
2007-02-15 12:17:16 · answer #10 · answered by bubba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋