hey people...i really want a bf...right now!..i think i'm desperate to have one all of my friend do have one...and im the only one who doe'snt...i'm 16..and everyone tells me that i'm really pretty...but boys don't ask me...it's really weird...for my friends that i don't have a man!...maybe because im a little chubby...before boys ask me but i tell them that i don't want anything with them, because there ugly!!.....seriously...people help me...!!...what should i do????...ADVICE!................
2007-02-15 12:12:42 · 19 answers · asked by yessenia l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are what is known as a "mean girl", why would any boys want to ask you out when you have a habit of telling them "no, you're ugly"? Did you ever stop to think that to some boys you are ugly? Maybe the boy asking you out didn't really think you were all that pretty but he really liked your personality. Well telling him "no, you're ugly" pretty much showed him your true self. My advice is to get off your ego trip.
2007-02-15 12:16:38 · answer #1 · answered by HereIAm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I've read, you have high standards for men, which is not a bad thing. There is a difference between picky and shallow, however, but I won't judge you based from a paragraph.
Don't settle for someone that you're not happy with. Having a bad first dating experience really does a number, I've had friends who have sworn not to date until they graduate after horried relationships. Just wait for the right one and be yourself :)
2007-02-15 20:18:08 · answer #2 · answered by Tess 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im in the same sitiation, im 12 tho
ummm, flirt with common people
like a promiscuous flirt,
and wear short skirts in the summer,
in winter wear a hot tank, wit a sweater on top
but when u come in dare 2 bare
alsoooooooooooooo
make sure ppl kno ur available
oh and if ur a bit chubby, and u think thats the reason u dont have a bf just eat tomatoes when ur craving choc
and look good feel good, and dont be desperate and dont go gaga over sum guy
2007-02-15 20:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't rush...it will cause you lots of drama trust me. Just because other people have a gf or bf doesn't mean you have to. I mean..I don't have a girlfriend,and its kinda nice being single. Being just friends make it easier to be yourself & gets rid of a lot of stress. Just be yourself..and if you find someone along the way that you like..then ask them! Afterall,they might like you back...but again if you don't want to wait..then just ask the guy you like. btw...don't act desperate..& don't ask everyone...otherwise you'll come off as being slutty or a loser.
Good Luck-
2007-02-15 20:25:40 · answer #4 · answered by Jeremy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know dont worry your not the only one! I am just about 16 and I have nver had even a smidgen of a relationship, i am close to one now but I need to be more outgoing! But i am really shy, so my advice is to be more outgoing and show guys your interested and be confident!
2007-02-15 20:25:33 · answer #5 · answered by shybunnny69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill out. I had my 1st bf when I was 17 and its been over a year and we are still together. I waited untill I was ready, not because I wanted to be like every1 else. Think carefully about what you want.
2007-02-15 20:18:28 · answer #6 · answered by Shivanie R 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
stop being so desparate and picky
U might b pretty but its not all. youre attitude has alot to do
with the way a boy might view you. so dont judge someone by their looks, how would u feel if someone you like told u tht> not very nice..but just wait stay calm and ure prince harming will come..mine did =)
2007-02-15 20:18:15 · answer #7 · answered by socute07 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just go to a kegger and get drunk and laid you have no use for a boyfreind now it's kinda lame your all like my other freinds have one and i want one you sound like a little kid in a toy store grow up
im not being mean just honest you have no use for one and it'll just make your life worse till after college (you better go to college) just get drunk and laid no one you meet now will be any good for you thats whats college is for meeting people who are on the right track in life and who are accomplishing somthing
stupid highschoolers only care about sex drugs and football alot of these people will always be as they are now and never any better if you keep doing what they are doing for the sake of haveing freinds or to be in your going to have a very un happy life
you sound just like my little sister and she pretty much thru her life away on some stupid highschool boy dont worry about it now just have fun
2007-02-15 20:20:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
here's a little hint
if you want a boyfriend, don't tell every boy that asked yo uthat they are ugly...
try not being so picky and actually getting to know someone for who they areon the inside.
your prolly not gonna marry brad pitt anyway... its a statistic.
2007-02-15 20:15:49 · answer #9 · answered by GirlInMassachusettTOWN 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
seroiusly men aren;t worth the trouble they cause, but when you are really ready (which is going to be when yo stop looking- that is when things always happen) it will happen. cheer up it is not the end of the world
2007-02-15 20:16:45 · answer #10 · answered by maggie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋