getting caught up in the moment... or thinking about the future?

Question

I've talked to adults about matters of love before. Usually they say;
"well when i was at a certain age, i was always just getting caught up in the moment. thats how most kids are when they are dating. Getting caught up in the moment. Not thinking about marriage or the future. Or forever. caught up in the moment and break up."
i agree most dating situations are like that.
But wat if. you want forever with the person. its not just moment that matters to you. it was like you wanted forever.
does that say something?

um for the second person who answered this question. What does sex have to do with it?

Answer 1

yes it does. you were thinking for the future. and that is so true. when you're a kid, you totally get caught up in the moment. that is very mature of you to think about forever. just keep in mind- most of your peers aren't that mature and won't be thinking of forever when you are, so be wary

Answer 2

If you have sex now, and the person you have sex with is not the one for you... it might cause problems later... your partner might not want "used merchandise"

Sex is best when it is given as a gift after marriage.

That is the greatest gift of love for your spouse.