Im wondering im only 14 and my mom said im gonna go to hell for being the person I am i admit i am sarcastic but I amm not evil :( i try to do good but its never enough for her! I want to run-awat im so sad and she is turning off the internet tomorrow.:(
2007-02-15 12:08:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not so much athiest I just dont understand God and my family is not being very nice to me and it makes it hard for me to not think about suicide :( cause no one cares bout me...:( and im always in trouble and my other sib's never get in trouble and my mom is making me move out tomoroow :((
2007-02-15 12:17:32 · update #1
nobody fully understands what happens to people when they die...
if i were you, i would stop being sarcastic and respect your family. while you live with your family, you have to play by their rules.
2007-02-15 13:58:26 · answer #1 · answered by Sopwith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to your mom's rantings as she is only human and she needs someone to take her anger out on. She probably has much on her mind. Too bad you're the one who gets picked on. Like a lot of people Hell and damnation is her weapon of choice to use against you. Just because your Sib's don't get in trouble doesn't mean they don't act wrongly. It probably means they are cleaver enough that they don't get caught. No way should you believe that you are an "evil' person, because you're not. You may have your troubles that make you sad, but as long as you know that you are trying to do the best that you can then that's all anyone should expect from you. If they don't appreciate you then learn to trust in yourself and value those ideals that you hold true within yourself. This is what the spirit of a loving God wants for his children. Not to be afraid of being alive or live in constant fear of hell and eternal damnation. What kind of paranoia is that to inflict on anyone? If you are striving to do good and desire to live a half way decent life then that's good enough for God.
2007-02-15 13:32:26 · answer #2 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a christian. I beleive in the bible fully. Yes, your soul will go to hell if you die as an athiest. No, your not evil, you are 14. You need to consult someone at a near by church to help you. I will certainly be praying for you. Don't do anything rash. You can seek the help you need in others. Read Romans chapter 8. Then go and talk with others. You are young and have a whole life ahead of you. You can write me if you like. email , rajholliday@yahoo.com or message me anytime.
2007-02-15 12:18:13 · answer #3 · answered by rajholliday 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure.I don't believe in heaven OR hell,so I don't think it's either one...I think it's extremely cruel and vicious for anyone to tell you that you're going to Hell.That is a wicked fear/control tactic.At 14,it's normal to have disagreements with your family..sad,but true..The good news is that in just a few more years you'll be out on your own and can make your own choiecs..but for now ,you have to obey your parents and do as they tell you,unless they are abusing you physically or sexually..in that case ,call a caseworker and get help..Otherwise,suck it up and try your best to obey your parents..believe it or not,they love you...
2007-02-15 12:15:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you know the person you are. You mom is wrong to say this to you. God loves everyone even the none believers and everyone ends up in heaven. You may be atheistnow but don't give up on God he may come to you later in your life as you are still young. AND stop worrying.
2007-02-15 12:13:21 · answer #5 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Straight to Hell for an eternity of pain and suffering.Think of the worst torture you can imagine X10 and thats what will happen.FOREVER with no relief EVER.When you die you have only two places to end up Heaven or Hell--PERIOD There is no other option.
2007-02-15 12:42:59 · answer #6 · answered by rockman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
athiest and being sarcastic are two totally different things... athiests are people who believe there is no God, no hope and nothing. sarcastic is just a stage you go through, you'll go to hell if you havent excepted Jesus into your life to lead you... www.teenhopeline.com go there and talk to someone *hugs* ill be praying for you.
2007-02-15 12:13:18 · answer #7 · answered by Lee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you go somewhere different in every other religions' viewpoints, but to another atheist, an atheist would die and be dead in the ground-end of story. Atheists have no god, no heaven, no hell, etc.
2007-02-15 12:12:51 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are an atheist they you are not acknowledging any supreme being...so why worry at all about what happens when your life stops...it's not like you have a soul that will be wandering around.
2007-02-15 12:12:58 · answer #9 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's is so untrue, as long as you don't do bad things to others.
If you die, probably end up in a funeral parlor then decide if you want to be buried or be burned.
2007-02-15 12:27:23 · answer #10 · answered by jon_yao 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋