help me i have to go to my dads. i don't want to go because i don't like being anyway from home. i have to stay there for a week. i don't sleep very good at other peoples house. even at my relatives houses. im always worried about getting sick at peoples houses. i can't even survive at day at my friends house. how am i going to live staying at my dads for a week. i have to go. it is court ordered because my parents are divorced. please help me how can i be less homesick.
2007-02-15 11:57:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
You don't explain very much. Do you go because it is court ordered, or because you love him.
How old are you? Depending on how old you are, you can petition the court to have the visitation rules changed.
No one wins in a divorce. There is no telling what you went through or how many things you ended up feeling like it was your fault. I have no idea if you have to defend your mom while you are with your dad, or if you have to defend your dad when you are home.
If this is making you feel bad then you need to talk to someone. You could start with a councilor at school or maybe someone at your church, or a leader with a youth group. If you want it to change you are going to have to tell someone. Maybe even your dad. Does he know how it makes you feel when you are at his place. By not telling him, are you actually lying to him? Maybe he or your mom can actually help.
2007-02-15 12:07:22 · answer #1 · answered by ttpawpaw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a blanket or another item from your house. It'll help you transition better. Call you mom a lot to talk. Keep busy. I'm sorry you have to go to somewhere you don't want to. :(
2007-02-15 20:01:36 · answer #2 · answered by Brown-eyed girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE A MAN
2007-02-15 21:13:17 · answer #3 · answered by mabmoy 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋