I made the extra effort to cook a nice and romantic dinner. I decorated my house very nice and I did not receive anything from him during my work hours. Or anytime after that. Should I be mad at him?
2007-02-15 11:56:04 · 9 answers · asked by Xica25 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I believe you should seriously evaluate the situation. You apparently went all out to show him that you love him and that you feel he is special. Did he do anything to show you that he cared about you? Does he show you love and affection every day? Gifts are nice, but what matters is how he treats you. If he treats you like you are special, and he does little things to show you that he cares, then forgive him for not BUYING you something. His gifts of love are better than monetary gifts. Hold on to him. He's a keeper.
If he does not show you that he cares every day, and if he did not even try to make you feel special on Valentine's Day, then don't get mad. It's time to be glad that you learned his true colors before you married him. Move on to somebody who will love and appreciate you.
2007-02-15 14:06:07 · answer #1 · answered by Lizzy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First you have to know what you feel, regardless of weather you should feel that way or not. Second, If your relationship is worthwhile, you should be able to openly tell him that you were disappointed. If you can't, then you had better get used to a long road of disappointments. Guys are such chumps sometimes, I know, I've been on all my life, and sometimes we just take things for granted. Don't let him get away with it, you'll both be happier in the long run for it.
2007-02-16 02:14:31 · answer #2 · answered by al b 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ARE you mad? That's what you should go by i guess. But it just depends if he even acknowledged valentines at all or if he just took in what you did and didnt care. Some guys don't think its a big day.... but everyone's different right? Maybe just let him know it sort of bothered you instead of getting mad.
2007-02-15 12:00:48 · answer #3 · answered by cm 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think so. My boyfriend doesn't like the day either. But he's good to me the rest of the time, so who cares.
If it's really that important to you, then you need to communicate that to him. Let him know (calmly) that you were disappointed that he didn't express his feelings for you on that day. Don't blame, just say how you felt. This lets him know what you expect from him without making him feel defensive.
2007-02-15 14:50:20 · answer #4 · answered by ~Biz~ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have every right to be mad. if he really love you he should have showed you that you are special by buying you something. even though my husband gets me gifts i still look forward on that day for something, its makes me feel special. if u can go all the way and do all that on v-day for him just to make him feel special why can't him
2007-02-15 12:30:46 · answer #5 · answered by kelly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think being mad at him will do any good, I suppose you could try it. I don't see the point though.
2007-02-15 12:02:49 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol No. He's a guy! Really, he probably just forgot. I barely remembered! Don't take it seriously.
2007-02-15 11:59:50 · answer #7 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be mad. His love is all you should need.
2007-02-15 12:12:55 · answer #8 · answered by Apfel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion ya u should be. if you went to all that wokr for him and got nothing from him then wtf. i know u shouldnt expect gifts but v day is special and he should have got u something
2007-02-15 12:00:22 · answer #9 · answered by Jade G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋