how do i tell my neighbor that i have been friends w/ for 3 1/2 years my true feelings for him without feeling okward and with him not thinking that i am weird or anything!! i am just afraaid that he will lauch or something! and rejection! i just have been like best friends with him for so long and every one has said that he likes me and all this stuff but i'm just not sure!!!i just don't want to screw things up! even if that means not telling how i feel.
2007-02-15 11:38:37 · 5 answers · asked by aviator 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if it was me in this situation i would go tell him how i feel but first i would ask him if he wants to know and tell him your scared to tell him cause you don't wanna ruin your friendship and still ask him if he likes you then you will truly know
2007-02-15 11:45:07 · answer #1 · answered by Chi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life isn`t for forever. i think that you should gather up all your guts and try talking to him and if that`s not your style then why don`t you try hinting it to him. boys sometimes are slow, so give it time. plus would you rather live your life not knowing how he truly feels about you and wonder everyday how different your life would be if you did tell him? just give it a shot and if it doesn`t work out then it`s fine cause it`s just rejection, pick yourself up and move on. there are plenty of other guys out there! good luck!
2007-02-15 19:46:59 · answer #2 · answered by jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the worst thing is the word "no", why be scared of whut u want, even if its just information, u should go about and do whut u want, and dont be limited to whut ur not scared of, ive asked questioins that are much more terrifying, and noithing bad happens afterwards, sure things might change, but dust settles, everyone knoes that.
2007-02-15 19:48:33 · answer #3 · answered by * r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should confront him and ask him straight up, don't pour out your feelings immediately cuz then that'll give him the upper hand. in the end, you kinda have to risk rejection, if he rejects you, then (if he IS a true friend) he will treat u as if nothing happened or --better yet-- go out with u and TRY to see u as something more
2007-02-15 19:44:21 · answer #4 · answered by nick's girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
notes always work
it helps u avoid embarassment
2007-02-15 19:43:33 · answer #5 · answered by DiL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋