Say it was a few years ago and they are now monogamis. And they don't have regrets about it, as if nothing that person did they thought was wrong.
2007-02-15 11:36:34 · 20 answers · asked by InvicibleStar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes..if they are different now.
2007-02-23 06:36:33 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll be completely honest. Alot of people in this life are going to judge you by your past, whether you've changed or not. It's the way the world is, and it sucks, but that's life. I thought I was doing good and that I was different from alot of my girlfriends and girls that I had went to highschool with, because I lost my virginity at 19, instead of somewhere between the age of 13-16. Nobody ever knew how old I was when this magical event took place but 1 guy was o.k for me by 19. I'm 23 now, going on 24 in 3 months and I've been with 9 sexual partners. I don't really care what anyone thinks, I'm just being honest. I'm young and I'm always safe, I've never been pregnant and I like to have a good time, when it's appropriate. I have a job and I'm an honest taxpayer, so nobody has the right to judge me. Do what you feel, just be classy about it and don't let anyone take advantage of you. It's all about knowing who you are and not caring how others judge you. Nobody's perfect and change is possible. Try this: Run down the street full speed, and while running, turn around and look behind you, you will notice that you'll slow down. Learn from your mistakes, but don't go through life, looking in your rearview mirror. Trust me, I should know. It ain't healthy. God is love!
-Tiff
2007-02-15 11:57:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes of course. Life is a learning curve and you presumably all consented so no problem. I did it the other way monogamis whilst young...divorced 5 years ago and slept around but now married to someone else and happy and monogomus and I know I am not a bad person so how can you be bad? You can't.
2007-02-15 11:44:21 · answer #3 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-17 17:15:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, yes they can. Young people like to experiment and have lots of b/f or g/f. As long as they leave that type of life style behind in the past, then no harm done. Who cares about what happened in high school? People mature and learn from their mistakes. That makes them who they are today. Good respectable, responsible adults.
2007-02-15 11:49:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if that person is looking for the acceptance of others, then it may not be that easy. If that person has come to terms with all that they have done in life (good and bad and that's not for you or me to say) then there is no need to seek the level of respect from others that most people need. It has to be self-acceptance or no acceptance to be accepted. (does that make any sense to you?) If that person is content with where they are in life now, the past is acceptably irrelevant.
2007-02-15 11:43:18 · answer #6 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes! Allow the past to stay in the past. It is quite possible to move on fromt hings done previously and become a better person. I wouldn't necesarrily reccomend running for an office, because they will drag the past into the light again. but, it is possible to move past it and become a better person from it!
2007-02-15 11:42:41 · answer #7 · answered by jen 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think its a natural and very good to do when you do it carefully
I dont believe it makes u a different person
dont judge for what their past was
we all grow and hopefully learn from it
2007-02-23 10:47:09 · answer #8 · answered by yety21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure...how many people you've had sex with has nothing to do with you being respectable or not. How you treated them and treat people at present, does.
Having sex doesn't make one a bad person...but treating others cruelly, lying, cheating, using people, etc ARE crummy things to do and not worth respect.
If you've been on the up-and-up and still are, then you've always been respectable... ☺
2007-02-15 11:42:25 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My saying is "Keep the past in the past". What you do in the past makes you stronger or weaker. It may change you or make you a better person so may be they saw it as a way for him or her to find him or herself and now they have accepted the person he or she is today
2007-02-15 11:45:20 · answer #10 · answered by Alise 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The late great basketball player Wilt Chamberlain was considered to be a gentlemen even though he had sex with 20,000 different women
Unfortunately when his last ladyfriend made him pledge to be faithful to her - the stress simply killed him
2007-02-22 19:09:33 · answer #11 · answered by JET99 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋