Me an my bf have been 2gether for about a year. I'm 17 an he's 20. We have a 5mo old together. I told my mom that he was claimin our child on his taxes (not like tattling or ne thing just telling her) but my bf hates my mom so he broke up w/me jus 4 a week becuz i was tellin her "his" business. the day after we break up, i drop him off @ work an then go 2 pick him up an he comes rollin up w/the chick i extremely hate an he knows damn well i hate her. so we fight about it, but it didnt seem 2 phase him. so he kept hangin out w/her so i told him straight up i didnt want 2 be w/him nemore an i gave his ring and necklace back. so then he goes and tries to off with himself and the day he's released he gets drunk and ends up having sex with her,takin a shower w/her an is w/her every second of the day an he says they are "jus friends" but he said that to me b4 when he was messin around. yet he says he loves me an wants 2 work things out but he is hurtin me really badly. what should i do??
2007-02-15 11:33:24 · 7 answers · asked by nikki_52641 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and i thought my life was dramatic.....find a new boyfriend.
2007-02-15 11:40:21 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My answer: LEAVE HIM! He wasn't worth you in the first place. About the baby, I suggest placing the baby in temporary foster care until you are old enough and stable enough in the world to take care of the baby. I know your baby is precious to you, but this option is best. One, not seeing the baby might help you heal from the father's actions towards you. Seeing the baby will be a constant reminder to you about who the baby's father is. Two, you would get a chance to actually make it in the world by giving yourself an education and not selling yourself short and constantly having to depend upon men. If you don't want to place the baby in foster care or give the baby up for adoption, do you have a trustworthy relative into which you would feel comfortable entrusting the care of your baby? This would still work the same way.
2007-02-15 19:49:36 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well at this point you have two choices to forgive him and let him treat you as he pleases or be an independent single mother which isnt easy. the best thing to do is go talk to him and tell him
that you want seroius relationship if he says ok id say give him another chance but if he doesnt seem serious at all you have a family and your whole life ahead of you you dont need someone who treats you like ur his slave or something either ways just be strong
2007-02-15 19:41:51 · answer #3 · answered by morgan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man hunny. Stop now. He's not worth it. Be true to you and your little baby girl and don't let that disfunction of a human being distroy you. You need to be strong. He will never stop and your Daughter deserves a healthy environment and I doubt he can provide that.
2007-02-15 19:39:14 · answer #4 · answered by Crazzychk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sue him for child support and let him go. You're never likely to have a healthy relationship with him.
Sorry.
2007-02-15 19:40:13 · answer #5 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get away from that guy. He will not be loyal to you. Trust me. He is bad news.
2007-02-15 19:43:15 · answer #6 · answered by john 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about him, move on... if he can't respect you now, how will he respect u later?
2007-02-15 19:39:25 · answer #7 · answered by cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋