Do i have a point to be mad?

Question

Its my boyfriends and mine one year anniverty today, all he's been doing is running around worrying about everything eles that really doesnt need to be taken care of right away. Should i be mad?

Answer 1

YESTERDAY, VALENTINE'S DAY...MY HUSBAND WENT TO THREE FLORISTS SO HE COULD HELP HIS FRIEND BY BUYING HIS FRIEND'S GIRLFRIEND FLOWERS, BECAUSE HIS FRIEND HAD TO WORK. I DIDN'T GET ANYTHING...WHEN I ASKED WHY, HE SAID "I DIDN'T KNOW YOU WANTED ANYTHING....HAVE A NICE DAY!

Answer 2

The only way to be sure he remembers your "special" day is to:
A. Start dropping hints a week or two ahead of time.
B. Ask him what he would like for your anniversary.
C. Give him suggestions about what you think is important about the anniversary and what you would like.
D. Do NOT expect him to be the only one who remembers.
E. Make a wonderful supper for him or suggest a nice restaurant you would like to go to as this is a special day.
F. Don't get angry with him if he doesn't remember. Men's minds work differently than women's. What is important to you, might not be to him.
G. Do what I did for Valentine's Day. Tell him what you would like to receive as a present...exactly. Men aren't mind readers, even though we would love them to be.

I know that it takes much of the fun out of the anticipation of what he will remember and do. But, in order to have a smooth relationship, you need to give up the "fairy tale" idea that he will always be there for you on important dates or always remember that important date. Sometimes it just doesn't happen. Are you positive the person who is taking his attention doesn't need help? Are you being selfish? Is he just not being receptive to your needs? Be honest with yourself when answering these questions.

Don't get mad. He may not realise what you are angry about. Just be the best person you can be during this situation. Don't try to make him feel guilty, that may push him further from you. Do your best to make a wonderful evening for the two of you, then let it go. Next year, start reminding him early.

Answer 3

Sometimes when there are a million things to do it is hard to focus on anniversaries or special events. If he doesn't acknowledge or do something special or dedicate time for you by the end of the night then you have a right to be mad. Otherwise, he may have plans in mind or make special time for you later. Wait and see, maybe tomorrow you'll have a right to be mad.

Answer 4

Some times you have to choose what gets you mad. Why be mad about him getting stuff done. If it doesn't get done today it will be put off more. Sometimes you have to let them do what they have to. Don't fight with him especially on a special day like today. He will see you as being controlling and that is the worst thing you can do. Just let him do what needs to be done then the rest of the night is yours.

Answer 5

What is he taking care of? Could it be a surprise for you? Or is he clearing things up so he can spend more time with you later? Does he even know it's your anniversary? A lot of guys are too busy to even think about what day it is, let alone remember anniversaries and birthdays. Chill out! If you don't, you might lose a great guy over something stupid.

Answer 6

Yeah I know I'd be pissed. I was thinking... my birthday is April 16th and that's also my boyfriend's brother's birthday.. and April 15th is his step-dad's birthday. I have a feeling he is not spending my birthday with me. It sucks. Also, my one year anniversary with him is April 18 because we got together at my birthday party last year. I guess we'll end up celebrating my birthday and anniversary on the 18th. Happy birthdayversary to me, huh? Along with all that future stuff, yesterday was Valentine's Day and it snowed here like crazy and he couldn't drive in it so we haven't seen each other yet. But yes, I think you have a reason to be upset. He should have at least took you out for lunch or something.

Answer 7

No, men don't think like women do. He does not even give it a second thought, I promise. If you want a long term relationship with a man, learn not to expect too much when it comes to being romantic and thoughtful. There are romantic and thoughtful men, but things that are important to most women are not important to most men. Don't take it personal.

Answer 8

you have a right to feel anyway you want - whenever you want. but in this case - i would be mad too. you should always feel as if you come first in someone's life - especailly on a special occasion. now- there will be times you may have to be on the sidelines, which is quite normal. but a si said - on a special occasion it is very important to feel as if it is equally important to them as well. whatever you do - make sure you tell him how you are feeling and see if you can talk it out.

Answer 9

Its only mid day he might give you something special later relax.
Its also seems as though his priorities are not yours and if that is the case you might want to talk it over with him. Communication is the key to a successful relationship.

Answer 10

well, it IS your anniversary, but is it really worse the anger at him? maybe he has a surprise planned, maybe he's had a bad day. cuddle up to him, offer him something sweet, he'll know that you love him and hopefully love back.
dont be too hard on him.
unless you get in bed tonight and he still hasnt said happy anniversary.
then shave his eyebrows off.
=]

Answer 11

most people aren't sure of what they really want in life. I received this letter from a friend on the computer, did what it told me to, and within a week, everything I had wished came true!! Here's an exact copy,

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1. To yourself, say the name of the only guy or girl you wanna be with 3 times!











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2. Think of something you wanna accomplish within the next week and say it to your self 6 times!!











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3. If you had 1 wish what would it be? say it to yourself 9 times!!!








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4. Think of something that you want to happen between you and that 1special person and say it to your self 12 times!!!












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5. Now, heres the hard part! Pick only 1 of these wishes and as you scroll down focus and concentrate on it and think on nothing else but that wish.











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Now make one last & final wish about that one wish that you picked.







After reading this, you have 1 hour to send it out to 15 people, and what you wished for will come true within in one week!







u only get one chance!!!!! Now scroll down and think of your
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Did you think of your crush? I hope so, that was your last chance. Now pay very close attention this important message!



Sorry but once read, must be sent. Yes, this is one of those kinda chain letters that everyone hates. This one has been going since 1864 and if you break this chain, you will pay!!!!!! Remember that after hearing these stories.







First Example:



Take Barbra Wallace.. She was a pretty lucky girl, up till she got this same chain letter. She had a crush on the same kid since kindergarden. when she got this mail she didn't pay any attention to it. She just thought, no big deal. And deleted it. The next day her dad got fired and her mom dies in a car crash. If she would have sent the letter none of that would have happened and her mom would be alive.







Second Example:



Try Freddie D. Now Freddie D. was your average nerd. Had glasses, was short and chubby, was in gifted. All the signs of
your total dork. He also received this letter and sent it to 51
people in the hour. Now, like Barbra, he had a crush on a girl since 3rd grade. The next day after sending the chain the girl confessed her love for him ever since 3rd grade. Freddie D. finally had the courage to ask her out, and of course, she had been waiting to yes to that for years. They grew up and
married each other to live happily forever.







Third Example:



Now if you couldn't relate to the others, this'll get ya hooked. Listen to this. A kid named Jordan Johnson was just getting on AOL to check his mail. He was a quiet kid, not that popular but not a geek either. he was just normal. He saw he had mail from his friend. It was this exact letter. Now Jordan Johnsen was a smart kid and he knew what could happen if he didnt pass it on. He simply pulled a few friends from his buddy list and sent it along. The next day, about that same time, he got a phone call. It said he had won the lottery!
then his dad came home and bought him a new bike! His mom bought him Nintendo64 and play station! His grandmother sent him a new computer, and his best friend
gave him tickets to the concert he wanted to go to, Kid Rock and Limp Bizkit! Then he inherited a brand-new tv from his aunt! He was goin' wild! the next day his secret crush asked him out, and they have been going out ever since.







Now, you heard the stories. I know which person i'd rather
be, but thats up to you. I wouldn't wanna end up like Barbra but thats only me. We all want what we cant have but now's ur chance to go out withthat special somebody ur waiting for. Take it or leave it. If you send this to-



1 person- you will lose all luck in ur love life..... forever!!!!!



10 people- your crush will say they like you as a friend...... ONLY!!!!!



15 people- your crush will say they like you



20 people- your crush will ask you out!



25 people- your crush will kiss you!!



30 people - you will be together forever



33 people or more- All of the above!!
Good Luck~ prepration + opportunity
Any thing may help a bit


Don't blow it, it's ur chance to shine! Have everything u wanted, and more! Now, complaining cus u dont have any
friends. Well theres an answer 4 everything. It's simple, just go in a chat room, pick some names and send away! but here's the catch..... you only have 1 hour