why are guys so shallow?

Question

today i heard some kid make a remark about someones weight, who isnt even that fat, and happens to be pretty in my opinion. i feel like all guys only care about looks, i understand it to some extent, but i know, that i would date an unnactractive guy with a good personality. that doesnt seem to work for guys and i just had a conversation with my friend about it. what are yuour inputs?

what do guys look at and think about when they first meet a girl?

Answer 1

they're so shallow because they're immature frikin jerks
who need to get lives, which it may seem they do, but they really dont. every girl who fucks them only wants them for their dick, and thts really pathetic if u ask me.
for some reason, they seem to think that girls like it when they make fun of other people. and since they want more sex from"hot" girls with big t&a, they do this cuz these girls like it, cuz it makes em feel better bout their skanky lil selfs

Answer 2

well, if u think that ALL guys, or even feel that all guys are so shallow, maybe u have to stop reaing cosmopolitan, all that crap is, is women telling other women how to please a man, how to do all these thigns, telling u women how to dress, i was drunk one time, and i commented this woman on her dress, it almost looked as if there was no dress on her it was so small, then she blew up on me saying im a man-pig, the most shallow man ever, i dont knoe whuts up with that, but anymore of that and ill turn gay, but dont blame it all on the men, please, get some common sense, women marry men to get their money men marry a woman who is beautiful, at least men marry or have relatoinships based on the other person, and not on objects or wealth, that is the main bias of todays society, the majority of the situations. someties the man and woman switch places, the woman likes the man cuz of his looks, and men go for the money, either way its all about looks and wealth, something i dont have a hint of...oh and p.s, dont blame the kids, blame the teachers, and i mean the teachers in school, and the t.v. Things arent the same as they were, the youth do not have any form of discipline or responsibility, the ones who do have both of these traits are well respected individuals, and are higly unstable but they are however being trained to work in a slave society, to obey and put their hands up behind their head

Answer 3

I think it more to do with the make up of their body and the way their view women a extension of themselves the better looking the way to measure themselves look old rich guys who marry/date women more than half of their age...their are physically and look and women are more than that...I bet they will be a guy who say there are not about that but just a lie...

Answer 4

The guy was just expressing his freedom of speech. It's not like girls don't make fun of guys.


I'm pretty damn cute,
but I've had my confidence damaged a couple of times, by women.
It's not a big deal... She will get over it.




Both men and women are shallow.... it's just the type of man or woman you are.

Answer 5

hey, guys have their preferences.

as for the looks thing, heres my (screwed up) logic:
a guy wants to date a girl who turns him on. making out isnt very pleasant when the girl lloks like a bulldog. a hot girl makes the guy willing to go up to her. because they excite the guy, u feel me?

but looks only get a girl noticed. after the first "hello" its all about personality.

Answer 6

im interested first of all in the personality --- looks do come into it --- as a secondary consideration --- i am a lot older though and have had more experiences and that colours my judgement --- best wishes

Answer 7

i think u should stand up for that person......tell the peoples that made the remark exactly whut you posted on the internet!
thats all yall
sup??
ttyl

Answer 8

superficial