My twin sister needs me right now. She's going through a lot. Plus, it'd be unfair for her if I married ahead of her, since we've been doing the same things, same time. We made a pact that our wedding would be a double wedding. She and her fiance, and me and my fiancee. But she's still single, and now, I'm getting married. Help, anyone?
2007-02-15 11:25:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Hint: I'm a "he," not a "she."
2007-02-15 11:32:11 · update #1
Sometimes somethings in life doesn't always work out as we want it. So you made a pact with her and it isn't working out that way,
Sit down and talk to her about how she is feeling both about the pact and your upcoming wedding. Remind her that you still love her regardless and that you are sorry that it didn't work out for a double wedding but she will always be your twin and that your getting married would not change your relationship with her.
2007-02-21 01:48:16 · answer #1 · answered by singsong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is your sister,but you don't need to wait un her she may never get married,or it may be 10 yrs. later.Seriously,if she truly cares about you she will respect your decision.Postponing,you will have to give your fiancee a reason,this good jeopardize your reationship & its just not worth it over a pact. Besides don't you wanna get married,that's every woman's dream.If she truly cares about you she will understand.besides its you two marrying each other that are going to spend the rest of yals lives together,not you,him,and your sister
2007-02-15 19:46:03 · answer #2 · answered by TH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This might be the first thing you do without the other one. Get married. She may not find someone for a long time.
2007-02-15 19:43:06 · answer #3 · answered by mimegamy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if shes still single and your engaged you shouldn't have to wait for her.Who knows how long it could be....she not even in a relationship yet!!!!Besides it your special day....and why would you want to have your weddings on the same day anyway.that would be weird,stupid and confusing!!!!!don't you want to have your individual special day?but it's your choice......but if i were you i would make a good one!!!!
2007-02-15 19:42:53 · answer #4 · answered by yo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should tell the girl your marrining you should say if you really love me than understand that i need to postpone the wedding for my sister tell her you love her with all your heart and give her somthing nice like a big box of chocolates. trust me thats what i would want to make me happy..... please tell me how it goes email me at thehotie4u@yahoo.com thank you
2007-02-15 19:33:14 · answer #5 · answered by jojo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not fair on your fiance its time u cut the apron strings.
2007-02-15 19:57:17 · answer #6 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What if she doesn't fall in love with anyone for quite awhile? And your guy get's tired of waiting....Will she postpone her plan's later on for you?
2007-02-15 19:30:05 · answer #7 · answered by M.R.M. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can't just stop ur life for a sister that is single
its not like her fiance died or sumthing
2007-02-17 00:32:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
defiantly not you should put your chin up and take a go
2007-02-19 22:04:38 · answer #9 · answered by elizabeth s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋