ok i like this guy named jared hes reli cute and funyy and stuff and he can be reli flirty and nice to me then be all mean and flirt with another girl but he dosent no it hurts me inside..so one day i put i love jared in my aim profile and someone told him because he wouldnt no cause he dosnet have a screen name so in study he wrot me a note saying wat did u put in ur profile..i wrote bak..a lot of things....and then he writes bak well what is that thing say next to the kissy face ...then i got mad because i wanted to know who told him!! and threw they paper out...then this other girl likes him 2 so her friends asked him out for her and he didnt say yes or no...so my friend olivia said yeah jared like her didnt u know and that hurt bad not to be like bitchy or like judging myself but i think im prettier than her and other people say that 2 ....idk what should i do and remember i love him even tho the stupid thing he does!!! please help me......sry that was long!!
2007-02-15 10:52:59 · 16 answers · asked by chef117 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok,..take a deep breath and evaluate the setting, High School maybe Junior High,..............................time will take care of many , many, many problems.
2007-02-15 10:57:27 · answer #1 · answered by iroc 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You sound very confused.
You decided to put "I love jared" on your profile - and then are suprised and annoyed that he finds out? Do you not think that there just MIGHT be someone out there than knows BOTH of you and spotted that on your profile.
If you didn't want him - or anyone else to see it who knows him...... why did you put it there in the first place?
You are rambling on about other people being less pretty than you - what has that got to do with ANYTHING?
As for "the stupid things he does", perhaps he is not the nly one that needs to think about their behaviour - rather than getting all into a hissy fit when inevitable thnigs happen.
Are you actually an item? does he know you are interested - instead of just being a flirt? If you are not an item, why shouldn't he flirt with other people.
You ask "what should I do" - I guess, take a deep breath, forget about EVERYONE other than you and him - and work out what you want to happen - and then see if he is interested. Who gives a flying frig if X is prettier or not than you. Ditch the irrelevant crap and deal with YOU and HIM.
Mark
2007-02-15 11:04:32 · answer #2 · answered by Mark T 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is harder, loving people whom you don't like, or loving those who do compared to you? maximum persons will be troublesome pressed to respond to that, yet we are regularly suggested as on to do those very issues. How sensible, how right down to earth is the note of God! It deals with subject matters actual the position we stay. This very week you'd be suggested as on to love someone you don't like, or love someone who does compared to you.
2016-12-04 05:43:22 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is Hate. It's kind of a screwed up situation. Both take a very serious degree of commitment, and they don't lie the line is thin between the two.
2007-02-15 10:57:46 · answer #4 · answered by Solace 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love is blind sweetie. He may be really sweet and caring at times, but this guy is playing games with everybody. You can always find someone else that will love you in the same way that you love them. Thats what you deserve. Don't waste your time with silly boys who can't choose.
2007-02-15 11:00:24 · answer #5 · answered by lilmama1822 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I personally think that if he isn't commited to loving you, and if he is dicking around with other girls, I think that you should dump him. I know you love him but how could you love someone who dosen't love you, and as far as I'm concerned when ever he's nice to you he's just asking for it.
2007-02-15 10:59:05 · answer #6 · answered by grant w 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him alone and if still acts real jerky then he is not the one right for you and thats a fact.
2007-02-16 01:41:27 · answer #7 · answered by Woldie L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i guess the best thing is to prove to them that you are better
and the best thing would be to forget about him. Even tough it is
Very hard to forget someone that you love so dearly. And it just
takes time to forget about the one you love that hurts you.
but i guess it would be better to forget about him and to like
someone else that will truly like you and someone that will
sincerely care about your feelings!!
2007-02-15 11:03:36 · answer #8 · answered by ~Beautiful~ & ~Gorgeous~ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to him
but dont get all mad in the middle of a conversation
especially if you brought it on
just tell him what youre thinking
2007-02-15 10:57:47 · answer #9 · answered by rebekah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok well mayb he does tht becuz he wants to have more gurls to like him so tht if one gurl says no to him he can styll move on to tha other yu kno
or maybe hes jussa playa
2007-02-15 10:58:01 · answer #10 · answered by mc.bubblez 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Can't you have the decency to spell correctly as it's not cool to write in moron language.
2007-02-15 10:56:10 · answer #11 · answered by Exterminator 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋