2007-02-15 10:52:49 · 18 answers · asked by Alan W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Hate is such a strong word. Is that how you really feel?
Being in a family is a great thing and we are lucky but what a crazy rollercoaster ride!!!
Good Luck and TRY to enjoy your family before its too late.
2007-02-15 11:04:44 · answer #1 · answered by Only Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate is a strong word, but sometimes family member’s way of loving is different than what my way would be. Me and my step mother are at constant odds against each other, if I say its red she will argue it’s really orange.
If it were between me and my sister I have little doubt that she would side with my sister every time no matter what.
Every ones family is a little weird, life is way too short, instead of getting mad at my family I let a lot of things go to keep the peace. Don’t be a hater!!
2007-02-15 11:04:39 · answer #2 · answered by BBQ RECIPE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do they do that you think is wrong? You need to talk to them about it. It's not exactly normal to hate your family, although it's normal to fight with them sometimes. You don't have to always agree with what your family does, but you should still love them. In the mean time, if they are treating you wrong, then you need to get out somehow. I hope things work out. Good luck and God bless!
2007-02-15 10:58:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. It's a thing everybody goes through. The reason is because you are around them so much they start to dig into your brain and annoy you much. You sould never do something bad just because you family is annoying. Remember, they are alwase there for you and alwase have been
2007-02-15 10:59:44 · answer #4 · answered by lalabo456 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal I told my family if they didn't buck up their ideas I would disown them It hasn't worked they still make me sick So I just ignore them and do my own thing
2007-02-15 11:03:31 · answer #5 · answered by kittiebann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because they are your family (meaning related by blood) it doesn't mean that you HAVE to keep in contact with them. if they are toxic to the point of you being on pins and needles every day then you need to cut yourself from them and let them live their own life while you live your own. check out the link below. it will lead you to a book about toxic parents. it may help you to deal with your own situation much better.
2007-02-15 11:28:08 · answer #6 · answered by cfalways 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its most definitely normal, just because your family doesn't mean your exactly alike. There are things they agree with and things you don't. You'll eventually get over it, just because your mas at your family doesn't mean you still don't love them inside. Don't sweat it.
2007-02-15 11:02:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anthony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha. You think you hate your family but you dont and yeah, its kinda normal but cruel.
2007-02-15 10:55:40 · answer #8 · answered by Vinnie R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is your age! i'm sixteen and that i've got distinctive the comparable issues, yet diverse on the comparable time. final summer, my mom cheated on my dad with some random guy, then ended up moving out & leaving me and my little brother with my dad. Oh, and she or he had 2 different babies from a marriage formerly she even met my dad that she did the comparable concern with. Her doing those issues made me lose ALL my admire for her. it is perplexing to even confer along with her, it makes me unwell. Now, are not getting me incorrect i like my dad and each thing, yet i confer with him too plenty! Like, some days i will tell him memories approximately me and my buddies, and we are going to laugh and get alongside tremendous. all of us consume supper jointly on the desk, watch t.v. jointly, circulate procuring jointly ever week, and each now and then it is purely too plenty. So, each now and then i purely sense like i confer with my dad and brother too plenty. So i sidestep them. My dad will inquire from me how college whilst and that i will purely say "good" then he gets mad at me and says something stupid like oh your in a foul temper. I purely desire he'd comprehend that no person talks to their mothers and fathers like i confer with him. yet i accept as true with you on the no longer desirous to come again domicile concern. I constantly sense like whilst my dad looks at me he's thinking me. properly, sorry i vented soo plenty somewhat of answering your question! yet no, that doesn't make you a foul individual. you purely probable sense smothered. you want freedom and independence suitable? it is completely nice. You sound completely widely used to me, and you're purely plenty diverse than your loved ones, which isn't undesirable each now and then. As to your little sister, no remember what she says she looks as much as you. it is purely the way it constantly is. So, attempt to get an prolonged, & set a good occasion. good success :)
2016-12-17 17:14:19 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hate is such a strong word...you may strongly dislike them at times, but you do not hate them. yes you may get sick of them sometimes, but remember they will always have your back
2007-02-15 10:58:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋