me and this guy are going out casually but i dont know if its working out. i mean he says he likes me but i dont know if i really like him. before we started going out i was head over heels for him but now i dont feel the same thing as much. should i dump him or keep going? and plus hes my best friend.
2007-02-15 10:51:45 · 8 answers · asked by Shelby B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dump him. you would regret going out with him if you don't like him.
2007-02-15 10:54:59 · answer #1 · answered by Grasshopper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your best friend, then there is no way you are going out "casually".
Sit down and talk to him about how you feel. Maybe he doesn't think its really working out either, in which case you can make a clean and easy mutual break. Otherwise, try to figure out what has changed that made your feelings go from head over heels to luke warm, and decide whether it's reason enough to break things off (be careful with his heart though, you don't want to lose your best friend).
2007-02-15 18:55:45 · answer #2 · answered by eileezy2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't keep going cuz then he will end up getting more hurt than you. if you don't feel the same way about him as before, you should ask yourself what happened that caused this change. once you figure that out, then you can decide to work it out together or just end it, but you must do this fast b-cuz you don't want to lead him on. and if you decide to end it, remember that you guys are best friends and if he really is your friend, then why not continue being friends. that is if you both want to.
2007-02-15 18:59:52 · answer #3 · answered by TheDrummer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like him anymore then you should tell him. Better to tell him now while you are still on good terms than wait for the romantic relationship to go the hell and have no chance of a friendship whatsoever. Just tell him that you like him but you were better as friends.
2007-02-15 18:56:16 · answer #4 · answered by Alyeria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him because why stay when you don't really care about him like you use to '-'
2007-02-15 18:54:38 · answer #5 · answered by shadow13579 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him...why waste anyone's time if you know it's not going anywhere?
2007-02-15 18:58:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! That's a toughie.
I say just do what YOU think you should do. Follow your heart.
2007-02-15 18:55:02 · answer #7 · answered by ☆ Sarah ☆ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you strinnging this poor guy along. your evil.
2007-02-15 18:57:31 · answer #8 · answered by angelbrat462901 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋