My sister is thinking of moving out of our town and going to live about 5 hours away with her family. The place they want to buy is beautiful they can go skiing ect...you know dream place. However it would not be a place where I would move to. Our kids are so close in age I think they will miss each other. We live in a beautiful town where the weather is amazing all the time so I don't understand why she wants to go. Should I just support her and encourage her. Oh also I have to say too she loves to do things like this. never satisfied with what she has always wanting more.
2007-02-15 10:45:03 · 7 answers · asked by EmzCruz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sounds like your sister has a dream. Be happy for her, wish her well and yes, you wont see her as often as before. Definitelly support and encourage her to follow that dream...she would do the same for you. Five hours is not that long away you could go visit for weekends and holidays and still keep the relationship going between the kids.
If you are negative that will not help the relationship between you and your sister. If she really wants to do this, she is going to do it regardless of how you feel...so why not have good feelings about it for her...you will remain closer that way.
2007-02-15 10:50:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Support her and encourage her to go for what she wants in life. she is moving 5 horus away so you wont be dropping in every day but it is not the other side of the world either. You and she can visit back and forth whenever you like. If this is what she wants and what her family wants then you should be a good sister and support her. You got a computer now get a web cam and the two of you can visit in cyberspace betweens real life visits.
2007-02-15 18:50:50 · answer #2 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While it is a bummer for you and your kids.....if your sister is never satisfied......chances are she will make her way back home sooner than you think. People who are never satisfied
are always looking "for something better" and once they find out
that it isn't better they go back.
Either way....you should support your sister in her decision.
Tell her you will miss her terribly, but that 5 hours isn't that
far......you guys can visit on weekends, holidays, etc.
2007-02-15 18:50:43 · answer #3 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello
since you said she always like moving on that nice ,but try taking to her to limit such way of life since nobody knows what tomorrow will bring.And you should try to adapte to her absence.
goodluck.
2007-02-15 18:55:44 · answer #4 · answered by ebiyedinak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wish her luck in her new move. She's a free spirit.
2007-02-15 20:15:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go and keep constist contact with her
2007-02-15 18:48:55 · answer #6 · answered by sodgirl6763 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then don't follow her, her candle will eventually burn out and she will then, understand the warmth necessary from family and the stability it brings.
2007-02-15 18:50:22 · answer #7 · answered by iroc 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋