so theres this guy I met at a camp that said he loved me like a couple of months ago, we have been txting, and msning alot. but for some reason latley he's been acting like he could care less about me. what do you think I should do? It makes me sad because we loved eachother so much. I'm afraid that theres a girl i don't know about. Pleese help me if you can
2007-02-15 10:44:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it was more of an infactuation but I dont want to sound like a parent. But as a teen myself, it was mostly lust. You were in the moment and everything was perfect but back to your normal lives, you've moved on. He probably just saw that and he gets bored holding on to old memories. these things are sad when they happen
GOOD LUCK!
2007-02-15 10:48:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Candy,
Well, I'm assuming you are new at this... Therefore my answer is tilted that way...
1) People change and do move on.. especially in long distance relationships.. It's just tough to try to stay connected when you can't see each other often...
2) My guess is that is exactly what has happened... It is difficult and you will experience some pain getting over your emotional attachment but time will make you better...
Sorry you have to have those feelings..
2007-02-15 10:50:38 · answer #2 · answered by gjm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I've acted the same way ur b/f is. He's annoyed. I suggest u give him some space and not communicate with him for a while. at least until he talks to you. unless, it takes him like FOREVER to talk. Like a month or 2 or more.
it might take a few weeks for him to not be annoyed. I don't know why but it might.
And if you trust him enough, you wouldn't be afraid or worry.
2007-02-15 10:51:12 · answer #3 · answered by ☆ Sarah ☆ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are wierd, they can lose interest in a female very quickly, or hate to say it but get bored, thats why some men cheat, and some marriges do not work, a lot of men are no good, although i am, but you see I am already married, most of the good guys out there are already grabbed by a female, so good luck there arent to many good fish in the sea...
2007-02-15 10:48:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...you sound young. There are going to be many guys in your life until you meet that one special one. If he is treating you badly then you should not take that...because you are only going to be sad. You need to move on.
2007-02-15 10:47:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well do you actually physically see him? If not I would suggest to. Texting and messaging someone is fine if you want to alienate one another but if you want to keep this love connection going you will have to be there for him to hold.
2007-02-15 10:52:10 · answer #6 · answered by hause 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need to question a relantionship then it is not love. Long distance relationships are never good. If you really worried about it then ask him. YOU NEED TRUST to ever have a good relationship
2007-02-15 10:48:16 · answer #7 · answered by Kayley M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um...... well mabey you afended him in some way or said something he didnt like but my ex sounds kind of like ur guy but im a dude so i had a girl but thats what she did to me to i found out she was having sex every day after school w/a guy named dallas and she never told me about it
2007-02-15 10:50:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is quite possibly a girl. Tell him you want the truth and you won't be mad (even if you know you prob. will), but you just want to know the truth. He may surprise you and tell you the truth.
2007-02-15 10:47:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it';s hard to say b/c it sounds like you guys never see each other and most likely don't live close so that could be the problem..it's something I would bring up with him
2007-02-15 10:47:34 · answer #10 · answered by blossom1014 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋