She's in my Arabic class and is easily my biggest college crush ever. She's made it clear that she's not in the least bit attracted to me (nobody ever is), but we still hang out sometimes and we talk all the time.
Although I've been looking VERY HARD, I haven't found anyone I like better than her yet, and I kind of have needs to *give* to someone I love even if they don't like me back....
Should i put a lid on it until I find someone I like better someday? Or should I just express everything she makes me feel even though I don't expect anything from her?
2007-02-15 10:41:42 · 8 answers · asked by A Box of Signs 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Eh don't worry man. Girls never like us guys. When she's forty and still single, I'm certain she'll look back in regret that she didn't latch onto yuh when she had the chance.
Chalk her up as a lesson and insight as to how hormones work inside the male mind.
Try not to come off as if you are looking for anyone. Girls normally don't like that. Just work on being the best person you can. Girls find one's committment to one's life as "hot."
2007-02-15 10:47:35 · answer #1 · answered by Tones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
telling her everything is definietly not a good idea. It will only make you both uncomfortable and ruin your friendship. Unrequited love is the worst kind of heartache and we all experience it some time in our lives. Enjoy what you do have with this girl and stop thinking about what you don't have. The perfect girl will come along and when she does this other girl will just fade into the background.
2007-02-15 18:54:06 · answer #2 · answered by Alyeria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She knows you like her so leave it at that...perhaps in time her affection will grow but if not, sounds like you've still got a friendship and that's no small thing.
Stop "looking VERY HARD" and relax. The reason you haven't found someone who is a good match is probably because you are trying so hard. Just life Life and let it flow...make yourself as happy as you can, love what you do and who you are...one day you'll look up, and someone really kewl will be looking back at you. âº
2007-02-15 18:45:50 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think she can handle you telling her that. If she can go for what you know. But if she can not I would not ruin my friendship, just to tell someone how I feel. You both are going to meet all kinds of people in this life time
2007-02-15 18:46:07 · answer #4 · answered by sodgirl6763 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be flattered if you express yourself or she may think of you as pathetic and feel sorry for you. Knowing her, you could determine her reaction. Either way, stop obsessing about her and find someone else.
Sorry. Good luck
2007-02-15 18:49:51 · answer #5 · answered by Patricia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her so you can either move on or maybe she will give you a chance at being more then friends. Good Luck
2007-02-15 18:45:06 · answer #6 · answered by Rob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Express your feelings-- just don't scare her away.
2007-02-15 18:46:46 · answer #7 · answered by Friend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and tell her
2007-02-15 18:45:32 · answer #8 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋