how far do u go on the first date?

Answer 1

not very, whatever happened to," lets get to know each other first"?

Answer 2

Sexual intimacy of any kind on a first date is wrong. It leaves nothing to anticpate. Getting to know another person takes time. At the end of a successful first date, a kiss on the cheek should be the limit. 2nd date, if it seems right, hold hands and perhaps a kiss on the lips (no tongue!!). 3rd date, a hug and maybe share some saliva.

Take it from me, and I am happily married (14 years and with 2 great kids) to the hottest girl in 50 states and 190 countries around the world. Taking it slow is better. Especially with all of the diseases out there.

Answer 3

Don't go very far...maybe some kissing. I will tell you right now, a guy will respect you a hell of a lot more if you aren't easy. By that I mean you don't just do whatever on the first date. I know this seems like something your mom would say, but it is better to wait. It is a good way to see if the guy is really into you for you and not for your goodies.

Answer 4

IF the date went well, and IF I really like the guy,and IF the timing and the mood seem right I will kiss good night on a first date, especially if I am hoping for a second date. we need to become much better friends before anything more is gonna happen with me

Answer 5

You should never go too far on the first date. If this ends up being a guy you stick with he will always hold it against you and call you easy. It's the old double standard.

Answer 6

How far do you want. 10, 20 miles? As long as you can find your way back. Serioulsy? Go as far as you are ready to deal with the consequences. After all you'll be left to pick up the pieces. Consequences aren't up for pick and choose. They come in the same package with the choice. Except you don't get to choose them. So, good luck!

Answer 7

Alexa -
Not very far. I would say a goodnight kiss should be about it,
but truth be told.........if one REALLY likes a guy and he tries
to kiss you......a make out session is always nice, but under NO CIRCUMSTANCES does he get to touch "personal spots"
and no skin.......no under the shirt.......just lots of kissing.

Then again.......if you don't have anything to talk about then
you really should make this your last date cuz who wants
to go out with someone that they have so little in common with
that you can't even carry on a conversation??

Remember these days.......ALOT of guys will try to go for
whatever they can get. Stand your ground cuz he WILL NOT
call if you go to far. No matter what he says....no matter how much he "claims" to like or even love you.....trust me he won't call.

Answer 8

No further the 5-10 miles should be far enough. Don't even think about the other stuff-hold hands and talk only.

Answer 9

The only thing you should say is " I sure had a great time" or "I had a lot of fun". You don't owe him anything for the date except the pleasure of your company. Intimacy is the gift of love, and you couldn't possibly love him yet. If he never calls you again, then you lucked out!

Answer 10

It depends on the kind of relationship you want, how well the date goes, how into him you are, etc etc. Even if the date goes well, though, try to leave it just at a goodbye kiss-- he'll be left wanting more.

Answer 11

The first date should never go further then a kiss. I dont mean MAKEOUT either... The more you give in the beginning the more you look like a whore... Sorry.