I live in CT. my girlfriend lives in Mass. i love her alot. and she loves me. we rarely get to see each other. her family and i get along great.on the flipside in CT, i have fallen for a girl at my skool. i see her everyday. and i kno i can have her now.(she has feelings for me) i do care for them both and dont want to hurt anyone of them. i get along great with the group of ppl who connect the most with both of them. this is tearing me apart. i need help. do i break up with my Girl in Mass or do i keep geoing with it? and the girl at skool knows about my girlfriend. PLEASE HELP A HEART TORN PERSON. im not a cheating person, so no answers like that
2007-02-15 10:37:53 · 18 answers · asked by perm2008 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know you love the girl in mass but you have to decide.I would go for the girl that shows the most affection.That will be hard. Honestly I can only give you 3 words. FOLLOW YOUR HEART!!!!!! and also my choice is the girl closer to you.It is hard to countinue a distnt relationship.
2007-02-15 10:45:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry this has happened, it is always hard to have to make a choice like this - but I really recommend that you choose the local girl. At least you have her to hold and spend time with.
Break it off with the girlfriend in MA. If you are looking towards another girl then she is not special enough to keep around!
2007-02-15 18:41:27 · answer #2 · answered by Susan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you plan to stay in CT for a good long bit then go with the other girl at school. Long distance relationships never work out, trust me.
2007-02-15 18:44:01 · answer #3 · answered by Kayley M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pick the girl that live in Mass, If you do love her the most, then ignore every other girl? how would you feel if you love your girlfriend and your girlfriend is in the same situation and dumped you. Exactly.
2007-02-15 18:50:49 · answer #4 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ... i think that you should pick the girl that you like the most (believe me i know that it is the hardest thing to do). Take things in consideration like which girl makes you smile the most, laughs the most, and which girl you talk on the phone the most. Thing like that will help you see which girl is better for you.
2007-02-15 18:42:08 · answer #5 · answered by Diimplezz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with the girl in mass. because you are falling into temtations with the girl in ct. which will cause you to cheat without thinking about it
2007-02-15 18:46:52 · answer #6 · answered by cute 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to ask yourself this...is this just a crush that will go away are you willing to let go of the old and take a chance on the new??? it could be just a crush and then fizzle in time. in the end if you love your girlfriend you will stay, becuase if you leave her for this girl, it wasent love.
2007-02-15 18:41:29 · answer #7 · answered by CRAZY 8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for the connecticut girl. she's a safer choice for you. The Mass females won't tolerate life without their man gone for more than a few days.
2007-02-15 18:40:49 · answer #8 · answered by Tones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the chick that lives in massachusetts is too far. unless yoo have some plans for once yoo graduate or whatever...just go for the new girl. yoo can't love someone that's not there.
2007-02-15 18:41:12 · answer #9 · answered by trish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you want to be with your girlfriend more than you want to be with that new girl from the looks of your writing
2007-02-15 18:40:48 · answer #10 · answered by Vinnie R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋