because sometimes as though it gets discouraging for a guy when a girl plays hard to get and sometimes he may feel as though she does not want him,,, some may play harder to get girls but some may give up....
thanks for any help!!!!
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2007-02-15 10:37:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anna G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's insane how confused people are. Why even go through the process of playing hard to get. I'm sure both of u have better things to do than play games. To tell u the truth, with girls and guys being viewed as equal playing hard to get is crazy. That's what women would do back in the day in order to make a guy court her and prove that he liked her. Now that we are supposedly equal why would I as a guy need to prove myself. We should be proving ourselves to each other. Just have fun and get to know him. Don't be afraid to make the first move, it's a sign that u are open and not stuck in the past/definite turn on. I can tell u, as a guy, I don't waste time with girls that play hard to get. Don't send a bad vibe. The idea of the 'thrill of the chase' is crap. It's just a society thing.
2007-02-15 10:48:24 · answer #1 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you play hard to get , the first thing that comes to our mind is that you're not interested with us, which makes it time for us to go for the next prospect. Guess it is more of a let down.
2007-02-15 20:05:31 · answer #2 · answered by jon_yao 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a lady plays hard to get then to me she is not interested and i back off --- its very simple --- its a no and no means no --- best wishes to you
2007-02-15 18:40:54 · answer #3 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let down
2007-02-15 18:40:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋