My heart is crying out for all the new sisters in Christ who got themselves in relationships with unbelieving boyfriends who stay with them...say she's moved in with the boyfriend and one day, salvation hit her...
Please tell me your experiences.Do you find yourself giving in to the guy even when you planned to say "no" to him.
I know a lady was born-again but backslid a little bit and she fell pregnant with this guy's child...this guy seemed to be taking care of her financially...the guy was unfaithful and so she quit the relationship and remembered her relationship with Christ and went back...the problem...she has not found a job yet.If she moves out she has no place to stay...and she has a two year old!
At least she refuses to sleep with him but still stays in the apartment...the guy threatens any guy who visits her...and there's this brother in Christ who loves her and wants to marry her...
I guess you get the idea.
Please my sisters, let's talk.Men are welcome.
2007-02-15 10:32:30 · 3 answers · asked by Hope Dollar 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Hmmm... Did you read the parts of the Bible regarding relationships, parenthood, marriage, and divorce?
The Bible is rather unforgiving on these points and that is one of the main reason why I ended up rejecting it.
You might also look at the Bible in terms of multiple marriages. It's fairly forgiving for the guys, but downright cruel towards women. However, Jesus is equally mean towards people who enter into failed relationships.
So if I were still in a Christian mode, I suppose I would be busy condemning ALL three characters you're describing: the woman, the man she lives with, and any man that tries to meddle in the situation.
As it is, I would recommend that she flee to a women's shelter with the kid if she feels that her boyfriend is abusive. But perhaps that is not the problem... Perhaps the problem is that the combination of their beliefs is not in harmony. In that case, she should have considered that before shacking up. What's to prevent her from making such a fool decision later?
2007-02-15 10:44:16 · answer #1 · answered by Cheshire Cat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
right on my man, glad to see you are taking some interest and protecting the fairer sex. But if you really wanted to help, you should kick the guy's a** and help out the little woman.
You know.
2007-02-15 10:37:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
got out of that one already....im on 2nd marriage with an unbeliever who treats ME LIKE GOLD...
2007-02-15 10:37:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋