I've been with my man for 3 years. I've always been physically attracted to girls too. And a few times when my man was at work, I invited my girl-friends over and we had "special moments". And now I can't make a difference. If I had sex with these different girls (4 in all), is it considered as cheating on my man? I haven't told him anything about it. It was for me just sexual fun, nothing sentimental.
2007-02-15 10:18:20 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You still cheated on him, it doesn't matter which gender it's with, it's still being unfaithful to him.
2007-02-15 10:23:20 · answer #1 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's cheating. If he came home and told you he'd had sex with 4 other women, but it was "just sexual fun, nothing sentimental" would you consider it cheating, or would you be okay with it since there were no emotions involved?
Treat others as you want to be treated...it doesn't matter the gender of the person you have sex with, if you have sex with anyone when you are supposed to be in a committed relationship with someone else, and they don't know about it or have expressed a desire for you not to do so...then it's cheating.
Bad karma...watch your back.
2007-02-15 10:22:06 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what he thinks about it. Some guys are really cool with girls being with other girls if there is no commitment going on. But most likely yes, you did cheat. You should not be having those kind of relationships when you are already with somebody, especially if he doesn't know. He might be cool with it if he was there with you and the other girls, but if you're going and doing this on your own, he will probably consider it cheating.
2007-02-15 10:22:26 · answer #3 · answered by blue_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is cheating, regardless of whether it is a male or female. I would not tell him...keep it to yourself. BUT if you are really serious about this man, I would advise to get your fun with him.
Also, if you tell him, he might get the wrong idea and want to join in...and that could end up being a mess.
Three years is a long time to be with someone, so you probably like him a lot...dont ruin it because you just wanted to have some fun.
BUT, if fun is really what you want...perhaps this is not the man for you.
Think about it
2007-02-15 10:22:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you cheated on him; because you haven't been able to tell him and you are afraid of his reaction.
A lot of guys have a sexual fantasy about making out with two women or watching two women make out with each other. Sound him out on this and see what he thinks. Then you could invite one of your girlfriends to come over for a sex party. Then you wouldn't be cheating on him, and actually making your sex life more interesting.
Once men discover women they think about sex over 60% of the time. Sex isn't just important to men it is vital to us. If you tell him that you are willing to make the 'sacerfice' to have a threesome so you can improve your sexual relation then you get the best of both worlds. You don't have to cheat on your man, you get to give him more of what he craves, and in a new way that could possibly blow his mind, and the most vital thing is you can improve your relationship with your man. Just as sex is necessary for men, relationships are as necessary with women. Most people don't realize this though, so use these few nuggets of info I have given to you and improve your relationship with your man, instead of degrading it.
Since sex is so important to a man from a man's point of view your extra sex activities are proof that you are cheating on him.
2007-02-15 10:28:29 · answer #5 · answered by Dan S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, That's not cheating, Most guys wont be jealous of girls sharing with other girls.
He would probably be hurt that you didn't include him in the experience.
You could gage his reaction by having an extended hug with a female while he is watching.
2007-02-15 10:27:12 · answer #6 · answered by apup76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sharing yourself emotionally and / or physically with another human being outside of a committed relationship is cheating. Once you come to grips with this you should be honest with your boyfriend if he means anything to you. Good Luck.
2007-02-15 10:21:54 · answer #7 · answered by Sharisse F 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Would you consider it as cheating if he had "special moments" with the guys behind your back?
Yes, you cheated on him.
2007-02-15 10:24:35 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah,it's cheating. Your bisexual, why not tell your man,it may open up a whole new world for you both. If not, you did cheat and that may be the thing that ends it,not the bisexual experience.
2007-02-15 10:23:02 · answer #9 · answered by fisherwoman 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it is consider cheating ,,but some guys find that attractive!!maybi 2 u is not a big deal but 2 him it can hurt him!!!
2007-02-15 10:22:45 · answer #10 · answered by latina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋