ok.. so heres the thing.. i have a bf!! hes wounderful!! awsome romantic!! hes the perfect guy!! i love him sooo much!! ..and today.. i got this letter from this dude that i havent seen in 2 years... and he said he misses me and he has my pix under his pillow and near his computer and hes very sorry.. he said that a 10000 times..lol... so what if this is desteny.. and ( spelled that word wrong... is it destiny? ) .. i dont want to leave them.. and i dont want to make the wrong choice....why would he write to me... 2 years later? i never really had a bf.. and this guy is my 1 bf... and i love him... but what if... hes not the one like i thought he was... do u think this letter means something? i was thinking that hes probably .. had a hard break up.. but he lives in poland.. and i live here.. so does my bf.. and wouldnt he have thrown my stuff alway if he would have a gf? oo and my bf and that other guy live pretty close to each other... lol ...so what do u think i should do?
2007-02-15 10:18:19 · 5 answers · asked by Angelika 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry you're in such a pickle. Well, only you can really decide. But you did she you love your boyfriend with all your heart didn't you? Why are you doubting yourself? This other guys, well he is two years in the past. Try to catch up with him. Tell him that you have a boyfriend but also let him know that you want to keep in contact and be good friends. Don't let him be a stranger. Over time you'll soon realize what you want and then, go for it.
But always do remember to be yourself. You don't want to give the wrong ideas out. That would be a bad thing. So, just do what you think is best and be your best self.
2007-02-15 10:27:16 · answer #1 · answered by Raise The Bahr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He lives in another country, writing you a letter after two years of no contact. Do you really think its worth losing what you have with this other fellow?
Investigate, but the choice is yours.
2007-02-15 10:22:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would garbage it and hope for the best & why are you with and overseas b/f but if he's buying you stuff then anyway I am out of here
2007-02-15 10:39:13 · answer #3 · answered by David H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be wise my friend i know its hard but tell mr poland where u stand ur curruent bf has been loyal to you why ditch him. life is about chioces make yours
2007-02-15 10:23:02 · answer #4 · answered by uncrowned ruler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you want but tell your boy friend that you dont want to be with him, rather than sneekin around =)
2007-02-15 10:21:35 · answer #5 · answered by trinity082482 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋