We've been together for 1 year. I think we are moving to fast.
2007-02-15 10:14:47 · 32 answers · asked by ~Lil Miss 32 flavas~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u wait till u are ready
2007-02-15 10:16:52 · answer #1 · answered by Sweety 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you think you want to marry him but just not right now you can be engaged and just don't set a date until you're ready. After dating for a year, you should have some idea if he is or is not the one. If he's not, you should end it so you both can move on.
2007-02-15 10:19:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need more time, that's fair. But on the otherhand, don't expect him to wait around for you, because that is also fair...to him. He loves you, he has asked you to marry him and you have turned him down, at least for now. If he is willing to give your relationship a few more months to work things out, great. But you have to ask yourself what there is about the relationship that you don't like, because if everything was wonderful, you wouldn't have turned down the proposal. And again, don't expect him to wait around for you to make up your mind. While it is wise not to enter into a marriage unprepared, it is unkind to toy with the emotions of others. Think it through.
2007-02-15 10:23:18 · answer #3 · answered by teacupn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your instints. If he is really in love with you he will understand. If you are having doubts take time to get to know each other better.
You may not be ready yet and I see no reason to hurry into a marriage then head to divorce court or a lot of arguments. and they will happen because you will not be able to resist. I told you we should have waited to get married.
Him. well you married me. nobody twisted you arm.
set a date to decide by if it makes you both feel better.
But now isn't the time.
2007-02-15 10:21:04 · answer #4 · answered by andreamarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you have sex with me already? How many times a week does he get it from you?
Well, you must be think is this relevant yes!
Most guys are waiting to get in a woman pant and then see if anything works out. The moment a woman stops giving access to *** the relationship tends to drop down slowly. More arguement will start. Soon cheating will happy, hiding things, sneaking behind your back. You need to get to know him first by talking about the future plan, what are his goals what are his achivevments things of that sort.
Good luck!!
2007-02-15 10:22:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If that is what you think then that is what you think and you should not be getting married. I say that you should let the guy go and look for someone else. IF you have been with him for a year and still have doubts and think things are moving too fast, it is all a big red flag saying he is not the one for you and your subconscious is trying to warn you. if you want to be happy, listen to it. Don't jerk a nice guy around, let him go.
2007-02-15 10:18:57 · answer #6 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are, tell him he's going too fast for you, if you're not ready than let him know, plain and clear, don't leave any details out oitherwise he'll keep trying to do it, and you need to get to know him alot more, make sure he actually loves you(for real(, my brother thought he love this girl, they got married(she seemed nice), a couple years later, she steals his credit cards to take her boyfriend to some fancy places, and for a limo, and totally blows him off, they're still fightinga nd whatnot, now he's all scrwwed up(financially), so make sure he's the right one
2007-02-15 10:20:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to let him know that you still need time. It may hurt him, but if he loves you he will wait for you. One year is pretty fast for most people, and you need to sit down with your boyfriend and have a loving and serious talk about where you see your future going. Let him know that you love him, but still need time.
2007-02-15 10:18:51 · answer #8 · answered by blue_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, this is suppose to be a life long commitment. If you have one single doubt, I promise you to say no. You have already asked here so that tells me you are not ready. Just explain that you are not ready, though you do care, but no matter what, trust your hearet, it has alreadsy told you, that is what will eventually make you happy.
2007-02-15 10:18:22 · answer #9 · answered by Randall L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you just answered your own question,if you think you guys are moving too fast then you need to let him know,right now you are just not ready.Don't marry someone that you are not ready too,b.c. later on in the future you may regret it.
2007-02-15 10:23:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then tell him you're not ready to marry him. You think you're moving too fast. Anytime you need time to think it usually means that you're not ready. So maybe he's not the one, if he is he'll wait for you. Good luck sweetie!
2007-02-15 10:18:27 · answer #11 · answered by April 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋