I've had sexual intercourse with a few girls before, and have always been intrigued by it. I've been with my man for 3 years now, and have been wanting to add a bit of spice into our sexlives. He's a pretty jealous guy, even though he's known to be a real gigolo. I want to experience a 3some with another girl but not sure how he'll take it. How should I hint hil about it and make him say yes?
2007-02-15 10:10:01 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't "make him" say yes...but if you have been with him 3 years you should be comfortable talking with him openly and honestly. Bring it up and you may find he loves the idea...IF he agrees tho...don't get angry in the future and act all jealous and throw it up to him
2007-02-15 10:14:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know of too many straight men who would turn down the oppertunity for a 3 way unless they are devoutly religious or very conservative.
Personally I wouldn't do a 3 way with someone I was romantically involved with. That can make things complicated in a relationship. But that's just me.
If you want to know how he feels about it test the waters with him if he's ever had a fantasy about being with 2 women at the same time without telling him that's what you want until you get his response to that. If he says yes then dig a little deeper and ask him if he'd be into doing it while in a relationship with someone if they were okay with it. If he says yes then you're free to ask if he would want to do it with you and another woman.
If he says no to either of the 1st 2 questions then don't bring it up.
Personally I think it's good to be able to open up enough with your partner with what your sexual interests are even if they may not share them. I myself have a VERY conservative girlfriend and I've told her about things I'm into that would turn off a lot of people. I just find them erotic. My girlfriend was receptive to it and even willing to consider trying it sometime.
2007-02-15 18:23:11 · answer #2 · answered by RaisedByWolves 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him how he feels about having a 3some with another girl. Get his opinion on it and tell him how you feel. If he's known to be a gigolo then my guess is he will want it too. So just give it your best shot. Good luck and i hope it works out!
2007-02-15 18:14:30 · answer #3 · answered by *Dancer 4 ever* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys generally love two girls and a guy so I can see no reason why he wouldn't go for it, but then again, you know him better. You've been around and that's kind of cool. Emotions here are very open and vulnerable. You have to be safe here on a few levels. You don't have to hint if you get him in a physical position with you on top and him inside you. He'll be open to most anything.
2007-02-15 18:23:25 · answer #4 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why hint? Tell him straight out how you feel. He may really like the idea or he won't, but at least it will be out in the open. If you have dated him for three years now your relationship should be open enough to discuss anything and strong enough to endure. If its not then what a better time to move on. As far as making him say yes. . . why would you want to make him do anything? Wouldn't it be better if he went along willingly? You sound a bit controlling if you feel like you have to force people to do what you want them to make you happy.
2007-02-15 18:17:47 · answer #5 · answered by devilgal031948 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's a normal guy, he'll be all for it....just throw the idea out there and see how he responds.
Be careful though...jealous guys can also be jealous of girls. You have to walk a fine line. Also, it's possible you might get jealous of him. What if he takes a liking to the 3-way girl?
Just some things to think about. Good luck!
2007-02-15 18:15:21 · answer #6 · answered by michaelyoung_airforce 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hello,
This is "every man's dream". Try asking him during a nice romantic dinner. Tell him about your previous experiences and how you feel about your sexual needs. If I were in his shoes I would say "Thank God!"!
Are you planning to do 3somes often or just once?
2007-02-15 18:16:27 · answer #7 · answered by Cry_Wolf 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to a bar, talk about some of the girls there. Let him feel secure that you don't mind him looking and start talking about their bodies. Then, see if he wants to go up to one and talk while you watch. After a few drinks tell him you want a 3 some. If he says no he is gay. Call me.
2007-02-15 18:13:49 · answer #8 · answered by Rob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't talk to him about something like this after three years, I wonder about the state of your relationship. In a healthy relationship, you should be able to speak honestly about your sexual urges.
And for the record, the others are right--most guys will jump at the chance to fulfill a fantasy like yours.
2007-02-16 16:43:28 · answer #9 · answered by x 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm shocked? Why would you think that your man would say "No"? Your best bet could be; While your watching a video where a 3some is happening. Good Luck!!
2007-02-15 18:19:27 · answer #10 · answered by 'LilOne 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋