I found out and saw that he was talking to another girl saying that he couldnt wait to hang out with her and that he was glad that he met her! He commented on all her pics saying wow youre beautiful and calling her cute and hott and everything! i asked him about it and he said that he can have friends and that he didnt do anything wrong saying any of that to her! i strongly disagree! i didnt know you were suppose to cry on your v-day!! he also said that i made his day misreable because i made the love of his life, his niece, cry because she heard me yelling at him and he yelled back. he said that shes scared of him and its my fault! i really need help and what makes this worse is that we have the rascal flatts concert in 2 days!! please someone help me!!!
2007-02-15 10:01:15 · 14 answers · asked by BrittyD 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well just remain calm and just have fun go to the concert and if he causes drama then just go talk to somebody else and do the same thing he did to you with that girl, that'll get him straight
2007-02-15 10:05:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
V-day is just another day. Forget that it was a "special" day, just think of it as Wednesday. Wednesday you guys had a fight about this girl he was telling things to.
I agree that it's wrong for him to be noticing other girls the way he did. You wouldn't tell that to his guy friends. Right? Explain to him that those are things that are NOT said between friends, those are things someone says to a girl that they would be interested in romantically. Those are romantic words and phrases that are used to flirt. Flirting leads to the possibility of hooking in someone for a date, then date for a relationship.
I mean, if that logic doesn't make sense to him, then he's an idiot. Really. What guy cares if his niece cried because of what you did? Oh please! That was just a turn to get you off the course of topic you were talking about. I didn't like that, throwing stuff back at you to make you feel guilty...don't buy it. Now you know the truth.
Call him and speak to him of that. Whoever bought the tickets to the concert should keep them. No point to go together if you guys can't get past this problem, if he's not interested in you and is looking for his next gf then...dump him. Just make sure though and don't just guess, talk to him about it.
2007-02-15 10:11:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. You have to get your priorities straight. Forget the concert, what is more important here? If you hold the tickets give one to him. If he has them and you paid for half the tickets, get your money back, if you can. If not, consider it a small price to pay for taking out the rubbish in your life. Seriously, feel bad for awhile, then get over it and move on. The niece is a child, she'll be fine, he's using the niece as a shield to get you to forget you caught him with another girl. The old guilt ploy. Dump him.
2007-02-15 10:09:28 · answer #3 · answered by teacupn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he doesn't think that it's going to far with what he did than that means it's only going to get worse before you know it they'll be going out on a date and then he'll say "It's okay I can have friends and go out with them" no. NOT OKAY. You guys have to different ideas about how a relationship works if you disagree on this then I'm sure you'll disagree on other things, therefore you're wasting your time. You take your ticket and give him his, and then go alone. Forget him he's going to cause stress on you that isn't worth it. So break it off, it's for the better. Good luck sweetie!
2007-02-15 10:08:36 · answer #4 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are over reacting. I mean, there is nothing wrong with your boyfriend having friends who are girls. You are friends with other boys right? So I dont see the problem with your boyfriend having a friend who is a girl. To me, it sounds like you are a little jealous of this new girl. What you need to do is sit down and have a talk with your Boyfriend. Apologize that you made his neise cry, and then the two of you can talk about what happened and hopefully come to some sort of compromise.
2007-02-15 10:09:58 · answer #5 · answered by unreal_punk_rocker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is a dog, a player, be glad you found out now instead of after you married him or made it permanent or had a child with him. Once a dog, always a dog. He is stringing you along, thus, the, "allowed to have friends thing", you are always there if everything falls through, and handy as well for sex, if you have sex with him. Dump him.
2007-02-15 10:14:33 · answer #6 · answered by Bev R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you that pathetic? Dump the loser. He's obviously playing you. Can't you see how he tried to turn things around by saying You upset his niece? He's guilty. Get on with your life.
2007-02-15 10:08:24 · answer #7 · answered by joedude471 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After the concert dump him make like everthing is ok have your fun and dump him. He can get lovin from that other cyber girl
2007-02-15 10:07:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know for 100% sure (not just by gossip) that he really said those things to that other girl you should break up with him because he's obviously into her.
2007-02-15 10:06:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he really loves u he will stick by your side, i know it was wrong 2 do that on v-day, but he will probaly move on and u need 2 accept that
2007-02-15 10:06:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋