well i like this guy and hes not a virgin but hes really nice and sweet he makes me smile and he always makes me laugh and hes hot too.i like him and he likes me and he want to ask me out tomorrow but my best friend doesnt like him she thinks hes a player should i go out with him or should i listen to my friend and find someone else?????????????
2007-02-15 09:59:19 · 19 answers · asked by nala0102 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you like him I'd go out with him your friends should accept it
2007-02-15 10:04:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you should make decisions about your love life. It's more likely that your friend doesn't like him because she feels left out or worried that your going to ditch her. Since this guy hasn't done anything wrong by you i think you should give him the benefit of the doubt but if it turns out your friend was right, be prepared for it.
I would suggest taking things real slow with this guy and see if he's happy to go at your pace or if he just wants to get in your pants. Never do anything you feel pressured into and tell him straight from the start that you want to go slow.
2007-02-15 10:06:05 · answer #2 · answered by Alyeria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to trust your own instincts. Sometimes friend's, especially best friends are a little jealous and are afraid that someone might take you away from them!She's probably worried that you'll spend all your time with him and she'll be left out of your life!! You'll just have to take the chance if you really like the guy and want to give it a shot.It's a hard lesson to learn sometimes but sometime's you have to learn the hard way! But hey that's part of life eh?
2007-02-15 10:13:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have two choice to believe your best friend or go out for one date or how many date you want and find out and see for yourself and hear from him from yourself. that might work... Best friend might not want see you fall in love with him and if both work out and she would never be same best friend you once know her.
If a guy try to pressure you to sleep with him even if one month or so .... remember tell him no and if he won't listen and you fight back and tell your dad an dmom and call police... guys should know what "NO" mean come from a woman...
so hope you find out for yoruself and let me know.. my is greenbaypackers1920@yahoo.com
2007-02-15 10:06:02 · answer #4 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To tell you the truth...ive had quite a few bad runs with the jock-playing un-virgin guys...they are no good...they want you for your sex then they find a new girl..
To tell you the truth go out for him on like 3- or 4 dates but DONT get to clinged on him and DONT fall in love...unless hes says I Love you (ETC)
If you think your gonna fall in love i'd back off....
As for your best friend....either she likes, likes him and wants you to stay off..
or shes jealous he likes you
or she's smart and whats only the best for you.....now if shes your best firnd she obvilous wants you to be happy...
I would listen to her...but let your mind go crazy...
just remember dont go fast and do it safe
2007-02-15 10:05:26 · answer #5 · answered by tickingclocks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect your friends advice but You should find out for yourself if this is really true. Be cautious and do not get too close to him. Be friends first this always work.
2007-02-15 10:03:36 · answer #6 · answered by Star Q 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn from personal experience. Go out with him, but just keep in mind what your friend said. Make cautious decisions.
2007-02-15 10:02:45 · answer #7 · answered by pertinential 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Cherl g good friends wil be wit u much longer than a player but its ur decision
2007-02-15 10:04:46 · answer #8 · answered by kidtexlex123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend is honest and trustworthy to you then just give him The Test to see who is really being true. Get some one he dont know to call him and flirt with him, if he flirts back he is the player. If he dont then your friend is playing you.
2007-02-15 10:04:03 · answer #9 · answered by juan26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I have to say is, Its your life. If you really like this guy and you think that your relationship will last, than go ahead and go out with him. Its not your friends choice who you go out with.
2007-02-15 10:04:09 · answer #10 · answered by unreal_punk_rocker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you want, it's your life. If your friend has some legitimate arguements why you shouldn't go out with him you can listen to what she has to say but ultimately it's up to you. If it were me, I'd go out with the guy - what can it hurt?
2007-02-15 10:03:17 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋