How do i get my ex to want me back if he is still in love with his ex who cheated on him?

Question

My boyfriend and i weren't dating that long but a few days ago things just started getting bad. we argued all the time and like i finally told him that it didnt seem like it was mutual and he told me that he had a lot to think about and had a lot on his mind. so i asked him where that left us and he said he was sorry but that was one of the things he needed to think about. Then i come to find out that on Valentines day while im sitting at home missing him and thinking about him, he is hanging out with his ex girlfriend who he is like obsessed with but she has a boyfriend. His friends tell me he still likes me so how do i get him back to me?

Answer 1

If he is currently obsessed with another woman, it does you know good to try and get him back. Just be happy that you aren't with him now while he's obsessed with someone else. Don't try to get him back, but keep the door open in case he ever gets over that other woman and decides he wants to be with you. But by all means......don't wait around for him. Find a guy who likes you and doesn't have any emotional baggage that he's hanging on to.

Answer 2

wow.. this totally reminds me of my problem... unfort. it is kind of different then yours by a lot. but maybe it will help some.

there was this guy [duh gay story..] that had a gf but for some odd reason he was talking to me ALOT! he ended up asking me out to prom once he finds out that his gf was cheating on him. so while going out to prom he finally asked me out and we went out for about 2 weeks. his ex was around ALOT but i wasnt going to put him on a leash.. after a while i found out that he was cheating on me with his ex who cheated on him!

so if any chance the ex gf breaks up with present bf. you better act quick.

i recondmend on just talking to him. tell him how you feel. i dont know what else to say. im sorry if it wasnt any help.

Answer 3

You don't. Why would you want too?