year olds.. but not so many guys ask me out in my own age group.. like i've had many boyfriends and i'm pretty popular.. but like i don't wanna sound braggish, but a lot of places i go, even with my parents guys flirt with me.. i'm going into fashion and wear a lot of trendy outfits.. could that make me look older?? idk but i really want guys to like me that are my age!! thanks...
2007-02-15 09:40:11 · 10 answers · asked by the names lauren =] 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are three things happening here and yes, the trendy outfits probably do play a role in making you look older. In addition, they might set you apart from your own age group a bit. It could help to scale back at times so that you don't appear as intimidating to guys your own age because (second reason) they don't mature as fast as girls and are less sure of themselves. The third reason is that older guys are sometimes looking for someone that's younger who might be impressed by what they can do, like buy tickets for an NC-17 movie, drive a car or even (face it, it happens) buy cigarettes. This doesn't necessarily stop as you get older, and that's why you see younger women with much older men. The older man uses money, knowledge and power to appeal to a much younger woman. It's called poaching.
2007-02-15 10:03:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a sense of fashion should not make you look older,unless you're dressing like a hoochie but maybe the guys your age a re intimidated by you.try talking to them,let them get some understanding about you.Then next time,they won't be so scared to try to talk to you.
2007-02-15 17:47:36 · answer #2 · answered by TH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe part of it is that you are more mature than the guys your own age. It's not bad to go with a guy a few years older than you are, you might be happier.
2007-02-15 17:46:54 · answer #3 · answered by rilindy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At age 15 boys will probably have difficulty approaching a girl who's so popular and sophisticated.You should try toning down your dressing and make-up, if you put on any.
2007-02-15 17:48:47 · answer #4 · answered by fanciful me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you can express yourself as someone of your own age, wear less trendy outfits, act more or less your age instead of older.
if its a physical appearance, you got no control if your body has developed faster than other women of your age group.
2007-02-15 17:46:33 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya ive been there, and still am. i just trun 16 and people think im 17/18. tell them your not interested. hang out with guy friends that are your age, and talk to the guys in your class. soon enough i can tell you, you willf ind someone your age...it happened to me...it can most deffintly happen to you!
2007-02-15 17:45:44 · answer #6 · answered by Emilie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'll bet the guys your age do like you but are intimidated. just talk to them and show you are approachable as a friend and possibly dating and you'll be surprised how many will start showing more interest
2007-02-15 17:47:01 · answer #7 · answered by randini692000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act a little less conservative and less responsible, i do the advice column for my school
s paper and though I'm only 14, people think it's a senior writing the good advice. i act less responsible and conservative than i really am and people don't think I'm older than i actually am.
2007-02-15 17:45:58 · answer #8 · answered by Stela P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't grow up to fast, that could be dangerous!
2007-02-15 17:44:11 · answer #9 · answered by Melanie P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-15 17:52:27 · answer #10 · answered by wilson chandler 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋