2007-02-15 09:37:30 · 27 answers · asked by KB 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I believe that "casual sex" is a oxymoron
2007-02-15 09:40:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only kind of sex that is casual is the kind that is had on a couch, or barcalounge. Other then that there is no such thing as casual sex because regardless of the level of relationship even two people that just have sex and nothing else are still in a relationship.
2007-02-15 17:43:58 · answer #2 · answered by Adam F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on many things. Casual sex means that you do not know our partner very well which may lead to being infected which sexually transmitted diseases such as aids which are life threatening. Another thing is if you are a religious person as myself in some religions such as Christianity and Judaism pre-marital sex is a sin or not allowed. But if you are not a religious person, your partner does not have a sexually transmitted disease, and both of you are comfortable with it is not regarded in today's world as uncommon, actually it is very common as people who are virgins around the age of 20 or above are considered very weird in the modern day.
2007-02-15 17:48:27 · answer #3 · answered by lilwhitekid41 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is really kind of a personal judgement call. I don't like casual sex for me. I enjoy relationship sex. There is better communication and it isn't nearly as selfish as just trying to get my own needs met. But that is me.
2007-02-15 17:40:44 · answer #4 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's okay if you and your partner are both comfortable with it. There are many out there that view sex as a casual thing.
2007-02-15 17:39:55 · answer #5 · answered by pertinential 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Someone will attach more meaning and emotions to it then Only have sex if you both at least like each other well enough to be exclusive. That will bring forth trust. Otherwise, the one who develops strong feelings for the other will be wondering constantly. That one would also be jealous and devastated if sex is shared with someone else.
2007-02-15 17:47:26 · answer #6 · answered by Patricia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok if that's what you both want. But make sure she feels the same way, don't play around with her emotions. Me personally I don't want casual sex it just isn't as meaningful to me, I'm not going to have sex with someone I don't love. However it's your own personal choice.
2007-02-15 17:45:35 · answer #7 · answered by butterfly7583 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is ok as long as it is with someone who also understands that he is just casual sex and that both partners use protection or are free of diseases. And, you also don't want to just knock up any old friend of yours so condoms r important unless u want to have a baby.
2007-02-15 17:41:03 · answer #8 · answered by Melanie P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as long as it is mutual it is great!!!!
Here is a tip, be honest about what you want from a chick. Don't play the boyfriend role then bail because you didn't have the stones to tell her you didn't want a girlfriend.
chicks appreciate total honesty in those 'casual' situations.
2007-02-15 17:45:08 · answer #9 · answered by tightlies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is very personal and Its a huge bond between you and the other person. Everytime you sleep with someone you leave a piece of your self with them. I believe you should be in a realationship, a serious one . For One you have to be sure they are clean and not carrying anything and two what would happen if the other person got pregnant you should be ready to stand by there side and care for them!!!
2007-02-15 17:43:39 · answer #10 · answered by Beautiful Disaster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends if your still a minor (under 18) sex either way is not right. if your of are (and so's your partner) of age you should always use condoms or you might casually have a responsibility the rest of your life
2007-02-15 17:43:24 · answer #11 · answered by Bruce B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋