Me and this guy werent officially going out but we said that we lvoed eachother and things liek that...but now i needed some time to think things over and i thought of it as a good idea..but now that we are officially like over...i dont feel happy..as i thoguth i shouldve felt...why is that? why do i feel this way? was this what i really wanted? and another question....is being in love the same as loving someone? thanks guys for all of ur help!
2007-02-15 09:34:52 · 7 answers · asked by Daisy! 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honey dont stress him .... if he really loved you then he would wait for you.... yes i know its hard but girls always fall harder than guys do ... it took me 10 months to get over some one i was going out with for a month..... but that may not be the case with you .... but you might not feel happy because u thought that u were meant to be ....... well honey idk if its what you really wanted .... sometimes people say stuff that they dont mean... not that u guys didnt mean it or anything ..... he might not have been ready for a real relationship and he might of realized that when you needed some time to think... loving some one is when when your madly in love with the person ... like ... if you had an ex -b/f and you really loved him at the time .... and u guys broke up .. u might still love him ... but your not in love with him... you know what i mean?... yea its kind of hard to explain it .... but once u find the one ... you'll knoe ... trust me =).... hope i helped
2007-02-15 09:45:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay Listen Dude:
#1: You thought the relationship was somewhat like a confused burden and that if u set ir free it wud have been better buh now u dont feel soo...
#2: You kina wanted it buh at the same time you didn't. Like I said some things cant be explained and its better they are unexplained. Never expect it the way you want...
#3: And last buh not least good question. And its not the same thing you can love someone and be in love buh you can also love someone and not be in love. Its something that happens and thats what happened to you..
2007-02-15 18:10:15 · answer #2 · answered by ConfusedAngel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No! Two different kinds of love. Me and my ex, before we even dated we said I love you to each other all the time. We were best friends. But when we started dating I stopped cuz I wanted to really mean it next time I said it. And it took a couple months.
But there isn't anything wrong with loving another person and saying it as long as they understand it's not a deep love. Just an "I care about you alot" love. Until the real love develops.
2007-02-15 17:40:00 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you can love someone like your sister or your brother. but being in love with someone is like a dating type of love. To be honest, I don't think you should force yourself into being happy, I've tried that and it doesn't help the situation. Maybe you should just forget about this guy because maybe you just lost interest and a guy you can lose interest in, isn't a guy you wan't to be with.
2007-02-15 17:41:12 · answer #4 · answered by aka goddess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.u r not used to him being away from u
2. u probably do love him
3. only u can answer that
4. no u can love someone and not be IN love with them...
for example u can luv ur friend but ur not in love with her
2007-02-15 17:39:56 · answer #5 · answered by sexxybabe_0486 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are sad because you love him and miss him
2007-02-15 17:44:41 · answer #6 · answered by industrialcow2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You INFATUATED him.. not loved him...
2007-02-15 17:38:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋