I have no problem getting as many dates as I wasnt to, but the problem is that I hate dating. I would much rather be with one guy that I like and could keep me happy. What should I do? I need someone who is fun, kinda cute would be nice, has a good job where he makes more then me,( not cause i am money hungary but I've been in relationshios were I made more and I strongly beleive it messes up a guys ego). I want a guy who is mentally as mature as at least a 30 year old guy, but is physically still in his 20's, ( mind you I am in my lower 20's but very mature and responsible). HELP, I Don't Want To Play The First Date Game, I do not enjoy strange guys I barely know gazzing into my eyes like we are in love and trying to hold my hand, YUKKK! ( excuse my second of my true age coming out Haha)
2007-02-15 09:34:03 · 5 answers · asked by tt1984 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have too many rules and requirements. The only guys that are willing to jump through those hoops are probably desperate and weird.
You want someone that makes more money because of his ego. Ya right! Just don't tell him how much money you make. But it is probably just that you are looking for the 'provider' ?
2007-02-15 09:43:05 · answer #1 · answered by tightlies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, be yourself all the time. No one wants to date someone that they think acts one way but when you finally get to know that person... is completely different.
I guess I would advise you to find guys that share similar interests in you and try to become good friends with that person and then take it from there. A good strong relationship always takes a lot of friendship. Also, all great things take time. Sometimes, lots and lots of time.
Just hold in there. You'll find someone soon enough. Trust me. Just remember to give it time. I hope to wish the best for you!
2007-02-15 09:43:03 · answer #2 · answered by Raise The Bahr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well It all depends what your definition of a good guy is. You need to evaluate what type of people you hang around with along with where you are hanging out. If you are constantly at a bar true love and a good guy most likely are not going to happen. Maybe you prefer the good boys? Go to church or a library. Like I said It totally depends on your perception of a good guy. Take a step back and evaluate the entire situation.
Good Luck!!!
2007-02-15 09:41:58 · answer #3 · answered by *~LOVE~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the dateing game sucks but I don't think you can skip that part.. Like they say, you might have to kiss alot of frogs before you find your prince..You seem to know what you want in a man, thats a good start.. look for only those types. Let guys know upfront that this is what you want. Good luck and be patient....
2007-02-15 09:45:32 · answer #4 · answered by Lavender 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the only way to meet a "good' guy is to go meet people. After time, you may find one of those guys fit your description. Don't go blindly asking random guys out.
2007-02-15 09:37:55 · answer #5 · answered by pertinential 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋