How long have you been in the relationship? Oh well... I think you need to gently remind him that there are two people in this relationship. In the same way you do things that he likes (I'm assuming you do!), he needs to do things that you like, even though it might not be his favorite activity. Tell him that there are things that get you as exited as sports get him (or whatever he does), and that it would be nice for him to do those things with you sometimes. It's all about not being selfish and totally self-absorbed. He's probably not a bad guy, just needs to be 'trained' a little, lol! It might take time... and be as positive as you can, don't just nag him, and make him feel bad. He'll come around! :o) Good luck!
2007-02-15 09:42:55
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answered by JP 4
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I know what you mean. sorry I can't give you a solution. I have come up against alot of that in trying to meet a man. I could accept them wanting to do some guy stuff because after all they are guys, but when they expect me to want to do guy stuff, well that's just too much.
2007-02-15 17:40:19
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answered by reallyfedup 5
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