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We don't talk much, but please help I like this guy. Thanks for your help.

2007-02-15 09:32:03 · 13 answers · asked by Stacy 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

13 answers

just tell him,sure wots de worst dat cud happen

2007-02-15 09:35:17 · answer #1 · answered by XxSaMMyGiRlxX 1 · 0 0

First, I think it depends on your age. I know, it seems like it shouldn't matter, but truthfully, I think I handled men differently at different times in my life (age differences). For example, when I was young - high school for example. I would flirt with the guy I liked. This let him know I liked him. Then, if he flirted back I would know if he liked me too. Now, if you are not a very outgoing person, this might be difficult, so if that is the case, I would have someone who knows both of us to kind of invite him to somewhere I would be, like a party, hang out or whatever.

If you are say, college age. I would say maybe you should watch him practicing sports if that is what he does. Girls who watch guys at sports get noticed (most of the time) and if the guy is interested, they will come talk to you or ask you out. If he is a musican same deal. Find out where he plays and go. If he doesnt play any sports or instruments, the next time you see him just make some idle chat and end it with something like, well, maybe I will see you around. That way the next time you see him, he remembers you and might take that time to ask you out.

***Both of these ages -guys are more interested in getting with you for your goods rather than your heart. Keep that in mind. Don't take it too seriously or you are bound to scare them away. And, never give it up right away, if you do you are setting yourself up for heartbreak fast.

After college men are more mature and I would say 99% would be interested in a relationship that works for them. If you guys hit it off together having a good time and get along well you are bound to have anice relationship. How to get with these guys? Just be upfront with them. By this time you are mature and so are they and everyone SHOULD be up front with their feelings unless of course someone is already tied down and well, putting up a front that shouldnt be worth being with in the first place.

Well, now that I wrote a book. Hope this helps. And, good luck!

2007-02-15 17:45:30 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy 2 · 0 0

Ok let's look at together. You have a crush on this guy and you want him to like you as much as you like him right? Then first of all yo have to fit in to the type of lifestyle he likes or admires about a girl. You talk but not much, that's fine to me because it creates different thoughts in his mind when you leave him each time you two talk including the MAGIC question,DOES SHE LIKE ME? And whose answer depends on what you can show to him that's different from any other girl. You'll start by trying to think of things that would give him interest to talk about when you two happen tohave a conversation. WHAT DOES HE ENJOY HEARING AND CAN YOU GIVE HIM WHAT HE LIKES HEARING? Of course you can it's a matter of BE YOURSELF, at every point in time. Secondly,look awesome! Try to dress in the modern way that fits your area, but dont over do it, just try to be simple but beautiful! And whenever you want to talk with him let it out, don't withdraw for any reason and free your mind talk about interesting things that can help anybody.Show your concern and care for him in the words you express to him. It all depends on what he likes without which there's no chance of getting him. So babygirl with a simple but beautiful look, an attractive character to every person as an intelligent and fun girl, an enlightener to people around you, and a caring person no matter the situation you are, all of which gives every one a WOW GIRL! and your focus and dream would still be to be with him by giving him some attention to show you like him, All of this girl, is the sum total of the real you! It's a gift every girl, has just be nice to yourself and to people and if his the RIGHT GUY your attention would draw him close to you. Remember be yourself, BABYGIRL!

2007-02-15 18:46:06 · answer #3 · answered by inekigha d 1 · 0 0

Kinda depends on your age. Let's say you're in high school and below, just write him a note saying something like "you wanna hang out sometime?" it's innocent and you can get a chance to know hime. If your out of school, than, not to be rude, just be an adult about it and ask him out on a date. If he says no, worst thing that happens is you move on. nothing matters as much in a day, week, month, year or when your 40. Lifes pretty long, dont sweat the small stuff.

2007-02-15 17:37:01 · answer #4 · answered by Rum Runner 1 · 0 0

Try to strike up a conversation with him whenever you seem him. Make eye contact with him. Laugh if he says something funny. Obviously, don't be too forward or it may turn him off. If you notice that you're starting to get his attention, play hard to get. Guys like that for some reason. Good luck!

2007-02-15 17:37:12 · answer #5 · answered by Garnet 2 · 0 0

Smile a lot when you see him. Can you muster up the courage to tell him that 1) you like being around him and 2) don't know what to say because you take my breath away ?

2007-02-15 17:56:09 · answer #6 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0 0

Ugh! I'm in the same situation! It sucks!

What I did was invite my crush to hang out with a few friends and I so there really wasn't any pressure.

Good luck! <33

2007-02-15 17:35:19 · answer #7 · answered by BOO! 2 · 0 0

approaching him and talking would break the ice
then go out to lunch or dinner if u dont want to go alone go with a group of ppl that both of u guys know that way yall are comfertable

2007-02-15 17:35:39 · answer #8 · answered by sexxybabe_0486 1 · 0 0

maybe you should try talking to this guy to get to know him. how do you like him if you don't talk much?? don't be so shy - life is too short to be shy!!! let him know how u feel!

2007-02-15 17:37:07 · answer #9 · answered by goddess 3 · 0 0

give him the attention that is due to him, if you like him, act that way towards him...if you want him to respond, then you need to show it.

2007-02-15 17:35:36 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0 0

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