2007-02-15 09:28:20 · 6 answers · asked by collegegalok 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Understand that since he is a parent, he will continue to have contact with his ex. That is just the way things are. And actually it is much better to be with someone who at least has the class to realize that although they couldn't work out things together they can still be civil and do the right things for their child.
My ex and I share a child. We are parents and damn good ones. We do not want to be back together because we were not a good couple. I would never try to get him back and hurt his relationship, and he would not try to do anything to jeopardize mine. We care about our son. He is our connection. We are broken up for a reason.
Just enjoy the guy you are dating.
2007-02-15 09:36:32 · answer #1 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay note...the child's mother is always going to be in the relationship. That's one thing you will have to deal with if you feel it's worth it! If you don't, then don't go through with it.
The last guy I was seeing (for about 6 months) had a 3 year old and baby momma drama. The more I got to know him the more I started to realize that he was a little lost himself. Needed to really know himself before getting into a relationship.
just figure out what you really want and what this relationship would really be if you would to actually be serious with him.
2007-02-15 17:33:32 · answer #2 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is the Ex the mother to his child... If this is the case he still needs to be in some kind of contact with her.
Just give it some time! If you don't like it then tell him how you feel about it!
2007-02-15 17:33:59 · answer #3 · answered by gonger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
patients it is not easy some times. He will always have contact with his ex. Try not to get in the middle of their arguments.
2007-02-15 17:31:29 · answer #4 · answered by bb77blueeyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,it depends what contact does he have with his ex!!!and it's o.k to have relationships with guy who has a child...I'm wondering is he divorced?if yes and he is with you so what a big deal?I'm dating with a guy who is married...but his marriage is only on paper nothing More...we are together,we live together and we have good relationships...and he has contact with his ex...yes it's bothering me,but I see what he does to me and his attitude to me and I see his relationships with his ex...you must decide what will be better to you...if you love him and he loves you,you'll find a compromise...talk to him! good luck:)
2007-02-15 17:36:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
date him until he gives you a reason not to trust him. if you dont trust him, it will never work anyway.
2007-02-15 17:31:54 · answer #6 · answered by precious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋