I've never had a boyfriend or any sort of intimate relationship, and I've never gotten anywhere near to kissing a guy. Is this unnatural? =/
2007-02-15 09:19:55 · 41 answers · asked by Angelshine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it certainly is not unnatural. everyone has their own pace. you will get kissed someday, don't worry, weather it's sooner your later, you time will come, and it will probably be wonderful. don't worry about it, fate has its own way of counting time.
2007-02-15 09:55:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not strange. There is a time and place for everything. I was 18 yrs old before I ever had or did any of those things, and not by my parents rule either. I'm now 21 yrs old and happily married with a baby on the way. What I'm saying is wait honey, just wait. The harder you try the worse it will be for you. It makes you appear desperate and if it's the wrong person who crosses your path it could lead to something far worse. The media says you aren't "normal" without these things (Sex and the City, it's name alone says everything), Hollywood has a way to glamorize everything. I remember when Dirty Dancing: Havana Nights came out I wanted to run off to some exotic location and be seduced by an accent speaking person, it may seem silly, but that's how you get hooked. Remember what's good or what seems good for one person might not be good for you at this point in time. Are you into sports at all, or other extra circular activities? Just remember to not think poorly of yourself as that will only make the situation worse. Instead think I'm a beautiful 16 yr old girl that hasn't met the right guy. I promise honey when you do you will definitely know and it will definitely be worth the wait!
2007-02-15 09:35:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I got my first kiss about 2 months after I turned 16. It was terrible and I realized I didn't really like the guy much. Then a month later I met my first serious boyfriend and that kiss was much better.
Give it time. And make sure you don't kiss someone just to kiss someone.....or else you may regret it. You still got time....I'm sure that their are plenty out there in your shoes.
2007-02-15 09:24:40 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way. My first kiss was right before I was 16. Anyway, no it just means that you are doing the right thing. Yes a kiss is wonderful but keeping yourself to yourself until you find one you really like and he likes you back. Just give it a little bit of time. Someday you'll find someone to share a kiss with.
Just keep your hopes up and be your best self. Hope the best for you!
2007-02-15 09:25:42 · answer #4 · answered by Raise The Bahr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
t is totally not unatural. People go there whole life without getting kissed. When you find that right person, then you will get kissed, but it takes time. Some people think that they are in a relationship and start kissing, but you really have to know that person.
2007-02-15 09:23:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. You are probably a modest young woman with good home training, so thts why you havent been "there" with a boy. Your 1st kiss is special- or shuold be. Dont rush it, just wait for the right time and the right guy.
2007-02-15 09:23:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um no, i had my first kiss at 16.
Its amazing when you wait for the right guy, i know thats a cliche but trust me. all the other girls who talk about kissing guys wil lreally seem so mundane when you find the right person to kiss. trust me, its a goood thing!! and you wont ever regret it. the right guy will give you one of the best kisses ever.
2007-02-15 09:49:56 · answer #7 · answered by Leila 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl. Society is just messed up. It seems like the average age to get your first kiss is like 12. It's astonishing.
I had my first kiss at 18. I'm glad I waited that long because he was the right guy to give my first kiss to. The other guys would've been major jerks and I don't want to remember my first kiss was with a jerk. I'm still friends with the guy I had my first kiss with.
Just wait till you are positive he is the one you want to remember. Make that guy worth it. ♥ And don't go rushing trying to get your first kiss just because it SEEMS like everyone else is. Don't compare yourselves to them. When it feels right, it'll just happen.
2007-02-15 09:24:59 · answer #8 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
anybody receives that self assurance to be outgoing at diverse factors. I had an older sister that grow to be fairly advise to me and overwhelmed my self assurance. i did not kiss a lady till i grow to be 16 both. besides, sob tale over. don't experience undesirable about it. in case you want to get into the game, attempt this basically introduce your self to random ladies. use any reason to introduce your self, you're searching for for style advice, new haircut, puppy names, the thanks to eat a reeces, the more beneficial random the more beneficial advantageous. you'll discover that strangers are highly keen to communicate, and they are going to be stimulated through your self assurance to easily walk as a lot as them and initiate talking. it is going to likely be troublesome, yet you are able to not get round adventure. basically get obtainable and do paintings son
2016-12-04 05:40:51 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, don't worry !! don't be in a rush ..!! you'll have your chance ..believe me ..!! everyone has a chance ....!! if it's not at 16 then it will 17 , not 17 then 18, ..but , really don't worry about that ...just be happy with yourself ..!! u'll see that not having a boyfriend while u're 16 could be of more a benefit than a bad luck ..!! some relationships are complicated ...!! just be happy and affirm yourself ...and you'll see guys will come to you ..!!
Good Luck !!!
2007-02-15 09:29:28 · answer #10 · answered by bobby s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not one bit...I didn't get my first real kiss until late in my 16th year, nor my first boyfriend either (I wasn't allowed to date until 16 and I don't count a grade school crush on a 4th grade boy as a "boyfriend").
Relax...you're doing fine...and bravo you for not having rushed into things.
2007-02-15 09:22:54 · answer #11 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋