2007-02-15 09:18:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I am a married Christian and I have no objection on any basis, religious or otherwise, to oral or anal sex. So long as it is something done on a consentual basis between a loving couple I don't see where it could be considered wrong. If it is something that one party really wants and that the other is very opposed to then the sombody is going to have to bend but it would be better if a compromise could be reached by both parties giving a little for the other.
I think that in most cases of marriage sexual conflict it is best to meet each other half way but if that really isn't possible, neither is willing to give an inch, then I believe that it would be better for one to do without than for the other to do something that they think is wrong.
I know of no specific christian teaching that doesn't allow anal or oral sex although there are always some out there who are willing to make the call for everyone else and tell them what is right in the sanctity of someone else's marriage. If you both like it then go ahead and have fun and if one doesn't and the other does then either work it out or go your seperate ways. I'm sorry but it doesn't need to be any more complicated than that.
2007-02-15 14:30:31 · answer #1 · answered by Barb S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I asked my married Christian parents what they thought about this and although they are not into anal sex they do not have a problem with it. As for oral sex how can something shared between husband and wife be bad, especially when it feels so good.
I am not married but I don't see a problem with either of these- Holy Varny is the only person ever in my whole life and my parents who we have come across that does not like oral sex, i don't understand how anyone could not enjoy this- it is a loving and wonderful form of foreplay.
2007-02-16 17:05:52 · answer #2 · answered by renee.emily 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am always amazed at the interest god the omnipotent shows in human genitalia and there use thereof. We are singled out as a species and given instruction as to how to use our genitals. All other life is exempt from such restrictions. I would have thought that such an unimaginably powerful being would have something better to do with eternity than wasting time with my genitals
2007-02-23 09:16:50 · answer #3 · answered by The Stainless Steel Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oral sex is only to be performed when in the context of foreplay. Anal sex is unsanitary and should never be performed for that reason alone.
2007-02-15 12:38:40 · answer #4 · answered by jaxmommie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, if that is your cup of tea, the so be it. There is nothing to my knowledge in the Bible that forbids it. Here is the closest scriptures that comes close.
(1 Corinthians 7:8) I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, It is good for them if they abide even as I.
(1 Corinthians 7:9) But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn.
2007-02-21 14:38:14 · answer #5 · answered by MoPleasure4U 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe if God convicts your heart on either of these two you need not to do them you have to go on you own convictions follow what God places on your heart then you will know.
2007-02-22 16:32:13 · answer #6 · answered by Fisherofmen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone knows that these are not natural practices and that our Christian faith prohibits such perversion. Nothing so dangerous or filthy could ever be sanctioned. It is wrong, wrong, wrong!
2007-02-15 16:18:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋